B\u0130SM\u0130LLAH\u0130RRAHMAN\u0130RRAH\u0130M<\/strong><\/p>\n Hamd alemlerin Rabbi,Rahman,Rahim olan Allah azze ve celle\u2019ye mahsustur. Salat Rasulullah (s.a.v)\u2019e Selam t\u00fcm M\u00fcminlere olsun. in\u015faAllah<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201c\u015e\u00fcphesiz ki \u015eeytan, insan v\u00fccudunda dola\u015fan kan gibidir. Ben sizin g\u00f6nl\u00fcn\u00fcze \u015feytan\u0131n bir \u015f\u00fcphe atmas\u0131ndan korktum\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0buyurdu. Ashab\u0131n\u0131 bu s\u00f6zleriyle hem temize \u00e7\u0131kard\u0131. Hem de insan\u0131n her an b\u00f6yle bir tehlikeye d\u00fc\u015febilece\u011fine dikkat \u00e7ekmi\u015f oldu.<\/p>\n \u201cKullar\u0131ma s\u00f6yle: (\u0130nsanlara kar\u015f\u0131) en g\u00fczel s\u00f6z\u00fc s\u00f6ylesinler. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u015feytan aralar\u0131n\u0131 bozar. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u015feytan insan\u0131n apa\u00e7\u0131k bir d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131d\u0131r.\u201d(\u0130SRA\/53)<\/p>\n Genel olarak ve her alanda s\u00f6ylenecek s\u00f6zlerin en g\u00fczelini se\u00e7ip s\u00f6ylesinler… B\u00f6ylece \u015feytan\u0131n aralar\u0131ndaki sevgi ba\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bozmas\u0131n\u0131 engellesinler. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u015feytan karde\u015fler aras\u0131nda kullan\u0131lan sert s\u00f6zler arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla bir s\u00fcrt\u00fc\u015fme \u00e7\u0131karmak, bunun arkas\u0131ndan gelecek bir k\u00f6t\u00fc kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k verme ile de aralar\u0131ndaki sevgi, dostluk, uyum havas\u0131n\u0131, ayr\u0131l\u0131k, sertlik ve d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131\u011fa d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015ft\u00fcrmek ister. G\u00fczel s\u00f6z ise, kalplerin yaralar\u0131n\u0131 sarar, kat\u0131l\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 yumu\u015fat\u0131r ve onlar\u0131 g\u00fczel bir sevgi etraf\u0131nda toplar.<\/p>\n \u0130nsan\u0131n a\u011fz\u0131ndan \u00e7\u0131kan bir s\u00f6z\u00fc, dilinin s\u00fcr\u00e7melerini \u00f6zellikle yakalamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Ki\u015fi ile karde\u015fi aras\u0131nda bu \u015fekilde kin ve d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k tohumlar\u0131n\u0131 ekme\u011fe \u00e7abalar. G\u00fczel s\u00f6z ise, bu gedikleri kapat\u0131r, yolunu keser. Karde\u015fli\u011fin dokunulmazl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, sayg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrt\u00fc\u015fmelerden ve k\u00f6r\u00fcklemelerden korur.<\/p>\n \u201c\u015eeytan onlara vaad eder ve onlar\u0131 bo\u015f umutlarla oyalar. Oysa \u015feytan\u0131n onlara vaadi, aldatmadan ba\u015fka bir \u015fey de\u011fildir.\u201d\u00a0 (Nis\u00e2 – 120)<\/p>\n \u201c… \u015e\u00fcphesiz Allah’\u0131n vaadi ger\u00e7ektir. O halde d\u00fcnya hayat\u0131 sizi aldatmas\u0131n, sak\u0131n o \u00e7ok aldat\u0131c\u0131 \u015feytan sizi Allah’\u0131n aff\u0131na g\u00fcvendirerek aldatmas\u0131n. \u201c(Lokman \u2013 33<\/p>\n \u0130nsan\u0131n i\u015fledi\u011fi hi\u00e7bir k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fck yoktur ki, \u00fczerinde \u015feytandan kaynaklanan bir yald\u0131z, bir cazibe, yalanc\u0131 bir g\u00fczellik olmas\u0131n. Ger\u00e7ek mahiyetinden ve \u00e7irkinli\u011finden farkl\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnmesin… O halde insanlar \u015feytan\u0131n elindeki kozu iyi tan\u0131mal\u0131d\u0131rlar. Bir \u015feyde cazibe oldu\u011funu fark ettiklerinde, i\u00e7lerinde bu cazibeye kar\u015f\u0131 bir arzu uyand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rd\u00fcklerind\u00e9 o \u015feyden sak\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131rlar.<\/strong><\/p>\n \u201c\u015eeytan onlara (bir\u00e7ok) vaadde bulunur ve onlar\u0131 kuruntulara s\u00fcr\u00fckler. Oysa \u015feytan, ancak aldatmak i\u00e7in onlara vaadde bulunuyor.\u201d(N\u0130SA\/120)<\/p>\n “\u015eeytan\u0131n ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 tamamen bo\u015f vaadlere ve aldatmaya dayan\u0131r. \u015eeytan fertleri ve toplumu aldatmak i\u00e7in kurbanlar\u0131n\u0131 temin etmek \u00fczere kendi yanl\u0131\u015f yolunu s\u00fcsleyip insanlara pembe bir manzara \u00e7izer. Ki\u015fiyi ba\u015far\u0131 ve zevk vaadlerinde bulunarak aldat\u0131r. Baz\u0131lar\u0131na milli g\u00fc\u00e7 ve zenginlik, baz\u0131lar\u0131na insanl\u0131k refah\u0131n\u0131n ba\u015fka bir y\u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc vaadederek aldat\u0131r. Baz\u0131lar\u0131na da kendisinin Hakk’a ula\u015fmada tek do\u011fru yol oldu\u011funu s\u00f6yler. Baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 ne Allah’\u0131n, ne de ahiret diye bir \u015feyin varolmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyerek aldat\u0131r. Baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 da ahiret’teki hesaptan \u015fu veya bu azizin \u015fefaati ile kurtulabileceklerini s\u00f6yleyerek sapt\u0131r\u0131r. K\u0131sacas\u0131, \u015feytan insan\u0131 en zay\u0131f taraf\u0131yla aldatmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.(MEVDUD\u0130)<\/p>\n Safiye annemiz Res\u00fbl-i Ekrem Efendimiz\u2019e son derece h\u00fcrmet ve itaat ederdi. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc o, babas\u0131 ve amcas\u0131n\u0131n Medine\u2019ye gittikten sonraki sohbetlerinde:\u00a0\u201co mukaddes kitab\u0131m\u0131zda haber verilen Peygamber!\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0diye tasdik ettiklerini duymu\u015ftu. Buna ra\u011fmen baba ve amcas\u0131 Efendimize kar\u015f\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Safiye annemiz ise onun hak peygamber oldu\u011funa inand\u0131. Sonunda o sevgiliye hizmet imk\u00e2n\u0131n\u0131 elde etti. Bu y\u00fczden Efendimize hizmet i\u00e7in d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebildi\u011fi b\u00fct\u00fcn yollar\u0131 denedi. Ona hizmeti zevk bildi. Onun hastalanmas\u0131na dayanamazd\u0131. Ona gelecek ac\u0131lar\u0131 kendisinin \u00e7ekmesini isterdi. D\u00e2r-\u0131 bek\u00e2\u2019ya irtihallerinden birka\u00e7 g\u00fcn \u00f6nce hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u015fiddetlenmi\u015f, m\u00fc\u2019minlerin anneleri de etraf\u0131n\u0131 sarm\u0131\u015flard\u0131. Bir ara Efendimize b\u00fct\u00fcn samimiyetiyle:\u00a0\u201cKe\u015fke senin yerinde yatan ben olsayd\u0131m. Senin ac\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131, a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 ben \u00e7ekseydim.\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0dedi. Onun bu s\u00f6zleri \u00fczerine di\u011fer annelerimiz birbirlerine g\u00f6z k\u0131rpt\u0131lar. Kendi aralar\u0131nda f\u0131s\u0131lda\u015farak Safiye v\u00e2lidemizi konu\u015ftular. Rahmet Peygamberi\u00a0Efendimiz bunu farketti ve:\u00a0\u201cSafiye bu s\u00f6z\u00fcnde s\u00e2d\u0131kt\u0131r!.\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0buyurdu.<\/p>\n S\u00e2fiyye (r.a.) kin tutmazd\u0131. Affediciydi. Su\u00e7lular\u0131 ba\u011f\u0131\u015flard\u0131. Ak\u0131ll\u0131, hal\u00eeme, sel\u00eeme ve a\u011f\u0131r ba\u015fl\u0131yd\u0131. Hz. \u00d6mer\u2019in hil\u00e2feti d\u00f6neminde c\u00e2riyesi onu \u015fik\u00e2yet etti ve\u00a0\u201cS\u00e2fiye\u2019de h\u00e2l\u00e2 Yah\u00fbdilik adetleri var. Cumartesi g\u00fcn\u00fcne h\u00fcrmet edip, onlarla al\u00e2kas\u0131 devam ediyor\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0dedi. Hz. \u00d6mer, meseleyi bizzat kendisine sorunca Safiye annemiz \u015f\u00f6yle cevap verdi:<\/p>\n \u201cYah\u00fbdilerle al\u00e2kam, akrabam olmalar\u0131 dolay\u0131s\u0131ylad\u0131r. Onlara s\u0131la-i rahim vazifemi yerine getirmekteyim. Allah Te\u00e2l\u00e2 Cumartesi g\u00fcn\u00fcne bedel Cuma\u2019y\u0131 ihsan ettikten sonra art\u0131k o g\u00fcne h\u00fcrmet etmeme ne l\u00fczum var?\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0diyerek \u015fik\u00e2yetin manas\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 dile getirdi. Hz. \u00d6mer de hi\u00e7 bir \u015fey demedi.<\/p>\n S\u00e2fiye (r.a.) bu \u015fik\u00e2yeti c\u00e2riyesinin yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frendi ve onu \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rd\u0131. \u201cBu l\u00e2flar\u0131 sana kim \u00f6\u011fretti\u201d dedi. O da: \u201c\u015eeytan vesvese etti.\u201d cevab\u0131n\u0131 verdi. Onun do\u011fru s\u00f6z\u00fcne kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k Safiye annemiz dolay\u0131 c\u00e2riyeye k\u0131zmad\u0131 ve onu az\u00e2t etti<\/p>\n S\u00e2fiye annemiz \u00e7ok c\u00f6mertti. Eline ge\u00e7eni da\u011f\u0131t\u0131rd\u0131. Hicretin 50. y\u0131l\u0131nda altm\u0131\u015f ya\u015flar\u0131nda iken vefat etti. Geride y\u00fcz bin dirhemlik bir servet b\u0131rakt\u0131. Vasiyeti \u00fczerine bunun \u00fc\u00e7te biri Musev\u00ee ye\u011fenine, kalan\u0131 ise sadaka olarak fakirlere da\u011f\u0131t\u0131ld\u0131. Efendimizle d\u00f6rt y\u0131ll\u0131k bir \u00f6m\u00fcr ge\u00e7irdi. On tane hadis- \u015ferif rivayet etti. Cen\u00e2b-\u0131 Hakk c\u00fcmlesinden raz\u0131 olsun in\u015faAllah. Amin.<\/p>\n VELHAMDUL\u0130LLAH\u0130 RABB\u0130L ALEM\u0130N<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" B\u0130SM\u0130LLAH\u0130RRAHMAN\u0130RRAH\u0130M Hamd alemlerin Rabbi,Rahman,Rahim olan Allah azze ve celle\u2019ye mahsustur. Salat Rasulullah (s.a.v)\u2019e Selam t\u00fcm M\u00fcminlere olsun. in\u015faAllah Safiyye validemiz, Res\u00fbl-i Ekrem Efendimizi \u00e7ok severdi. Ona c\u00e2n\u00fc g\u00f6n\u00fclden hizmet etmek isterdi. \u00c7ok g\u00fczel yemek pi\u015firir ve Efendimize g\u00f6nderirdi. Ondan ayr\u0131lmak istemezdi. Bir g\u00fcn Res\u00fcl-i Ekrem Efendimiz mescidde \u00eetikafta iken ziyaretine gitti. Bir saat kadar yan\u0131nda […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":11,"featured_media":28957,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,251],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n\n