B\u0130SM\u0130LLAH\u0130RRAHMAN\u0130RRAH\u0130M<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Hamd Alemlerin Rabbi, Rahman, Rahim ve din g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn sahibi bizden \u00f6ncekilerin ve sonrakilerin yegane ilah\u0131, kulluk yap\u0131lmaya tek lay\u0131k olan Allah (C.C.) mahsustur. Nefislerimizin \u015ferrinden Amellerimizin fenal\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan ona s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131r\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Salat ve Selam Alemlere Rahmet insanl\u0131\u011fa hidayet olarak g\u00f6nderilen \u0130slam \u00fcmmetinin lideri m\u00fccahidlerin kumandan\u0131 ba\u015fkomutan Resulullah (s.a.v) onu takip eden m\u00fcminlerin \u00fczerine olsun \u0130n\u015fallah.<\/p>\n

\u0130slam bir f\u0131trat dinidir. Bu hanif olan dinin emrettikleri oldu\u011fu gibi yasaklam\u0131\u015f olduklar\u0131da vard\u0131r. Bunlardan bir tanesi \u00e7okta \u00f6nem verilmeyen e\u015fler aras\u0131ndaki s\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 if\u015fa etmektir.<\/p>\n

Allah azze ve celle bir ayeti kerimesinde \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n

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• \u0130yi kad\u0131nlar itaatkar olanlar ve Allah(C.C.)\u2019\u0131n korumas\u0131n\u0131 emretti\u011fi \u015feyleri kocalar\u0131n\u0131n bulunmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zamanlardada koruyanlard\u0131r. (Nisa 34)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

  Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu bir ara da oturduklar\u0131nda evlerinin en ince i\u015flerini ortaya koyup konu\u015furlar. Bu da onlara tatl\u0131 gelir \u015feytanda kad\u0131nlar\u0131n konu\u015fmalar\u0131nda azg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 bulur. Birbirlerine gizli ve mahrem olan \u015feyler hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in \u0131srar ettirir ve zehirlerini iki tarafa \u00fcf\u00fcrerek aktar\u0131r ve birbirinin kocas\u0131na di\u011ferine en g\u00fczel \u015fekilde tasavvur eder ve o ki\u015fi o kad\u0131n\u0131n kalbine girer. B\u00f6ylece o kad\u0131n e\u015fiyle beraber oldu\u011fu i.in \u00fcz\u00fclmeye ba\u015flar ve her daim yanl\u0131\u015f bir se\u00e7im yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr. \u00d6yleki kendi kocas\u0131n\u0131n ay\u0131p ve eksiklerini kar\u015f\u0131 kad\u0131n\u0131n kocas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6zelliklerini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek k\u0131yas yapar. \u015eeytan onu \u00f6yle bir kand\u0131r\u0131r ki kendisini cehennemde kar\u015f\u0131 kad\u0131n\u0131 cennette san\u0131r. Her ne kadar durum akside olsa i\u015fitmek g\u00f6rmek ve ya\u015famak gibi de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n

  \u0130\u015fte bu ve bundan ba\u015fka sebeplerden dolay\u0131 \u0130slam evlilik kar\u0131-koca s\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 if\u015fa etmeyi kad\u0131n ve koca aras\u0131ndaki \u00f6zel \u015feylere ondan ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n muttali olmas\u0131n\u0131 haram k\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

  Sahih hadiste Resullah (s.a.v)\u2019\u0131n \u015f\u00f6ye dedi\u011fi rivayet edilir. \u2018\u2019k\u0131yamet g\u00fcn\u00fc Allah (C.C.) kat\u0131nda en \u015ferli insan kar\u0131s\u0131na g\u00f6r\u00fcp duydu\u011fu her\u015feyi anlatan erkek ve kocas\u0131na g\u00f6r\u00fcp duydu\u011fu her \u015feyi anlatan kad\u0131nd\u0131r.\u2019 (M\u00fcslim)<\/p>\n

  Allah Resulu (s.a.v.)\u00a0 bu gibi \u00e7irkin gidi\u015fattan sak\u0131nd\u0131rmak amac\u0131yla kad\u0131n ve erkekten olu\u015fan toplulu\u011fu her daim uyarm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.<\/p>\n

  Allah Resul\u00fcn\u00fcn buyurdu\u011fu gibi ya hay\u0131r konu\u015f yada sus insanlar\u0131 fitneye sebeb olacak konu\u015fmalarda kendimizi sak\u0131nd\u0131rmal\u0131y\u0131z. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n haramlar\u0131 hafife almalar\u0131 gittik\u00e7e o yuvay\u0131 bozmaya kadar gider sebebler zaman\u2019ca b\u00fcy\u00fcr\u00a0 o kad\u0131n e\u015finin s\u00f6zlerin ve emirlerini hafife al\u0131r. Kocas\u0131ndan izin almay\u0131 terk eder. Kocas\u0131na ba\u015fka bir kad\u0131n\u0131 vasfeder. Kocas\u0131n\u0131n izni olmadan mal\u0131ndan verir, ve harama d\u00fc\u015fer.<\/p>\n

  Peygamberimizin (S.A.V)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Hz. Hafsa\u2019ya s\u0131r olarak s\u00f6yledi\u011fi s\u00f6z\u00fcn if\u015fa edilerek Hz. Ai\u015fe\u2019ye nakledilmesi ve bundan sonra Resullah\u2019\u0131n ailesinde meydana gelen dedikodular ve gizli planlar dolay\u0131s\u0131yla Resulullah\u2019\u0131n han\u0131mlar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 son derece k\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131 sebebiyle bir ay m\u00fcddetle han\u0131mlar\u0131ndan ayr\u0131lmas\u0131na sebeb olmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n

  Allah azze ve celle Ayeti kerimesinde;<\/p>\n

  Hani Peygamber han\u0131mlar\u0131ndan birine gizlice bir s\u00f6z s\u00f6ylemi\u015fti. Fakat han\u0131m\u0131 bu s\u0131rr\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa vurunca Allah(c.c.)\u2019da peygamberine bu durumu s\u0131rr\u0131n if\u015fa edildi\u011fini bildirmi\u015fti. Peygamberde if\u015fa edilen s\u0131rr\u0131n bir k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 if\u015fa eden han\u0131m\u0131na bildirmi\u015fti. (Tahrim Suresi 3)<\/p>\n

  Bu olaylarda kad\u0131n\u0131n kocas\u0131na s\u0131rr\u0131n\u0131n korumas\u0131n\u0131n de\u011feri ve s\u0131rr\u0131 if\u015fa etmemenin evlerin oradaki ili\u015fkinin istikrar\u0131n\u0131 koruma hususunda kad\u0131nlara birer ders vard\u0131r.<\/p>\n

  Allah (C.C.)\u2019dan korkan M\u00fcsl\u00fcman kad\u0131n ve kocas\u0131n\u0131n s\u0131rr\u0131n\u0131 yaymaz. Kocas\u0131 ile aras\u0131ndaki problemleri ve s\u0131rlar\u0131 hi\u00e7bir kimseye anlatmaz. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc ciddi ve \u015fuurlu M\u00fcsl\u00fcman kad\u0131n basit l\u00fczumsuz konu\u015fmalardan uzakt\u0131r. M\u00fcsl\u00fcman kad\u0131n\u0131n vakti de\u011ferlidir bo\u015f olan \u015feylerle vaktini ge\u00e7iremez. Onun her ortam\u0131n\u0131 de\u011ferlendirmesi Allah (C.C.)\u2019\u00een raz\u0131 oldu\u011fu \u015fekilde ge\u00e7irmesi g\u00fcnaha ve haram\u2019a d\u00fc\u015fecek konu\u015fmalardan her daim ka\u00e7\u0131nmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

  \u015euraya\u2019da de\u011finmek gerekir ki e\u015finle aranda bir s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 anla\u015fmazl\u0131k ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda elbette onu \u00e7\u00f6zebilmek ad\u0131na sana fayda verecek \u0130lim ehli bir insandan nasihat almak s\u0131rlar\u0131 if\u015fa etmek demek de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n

  Burada yap\u0131lan yanl\u0131\u015f kad\u0131n\u0131n Allah (C.C.)kat\u0131nda \u015ferli bir insan konumuna d\u00fc\u015fmesi e\u015fi ile aras\u0131nda olan her m\u00fcnasebeti anlatmas\u0131 kocas\u0131n\u0131n ho\u015flanmayaca\u011f\u0131 veya duyunca k\u0131zaca\u011f\u0131 olaylar\u0131 cahil kad\u0131nlara anlatmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

  Yoksa tabikide ba\u015f\u0131m\u0131za gelen her durumda \u0130slama ba\u015f vurmal\u0131y\u0131z. Buradaki inceli\u011fi iyi ay\u0131rt etmeliyiz.<\/p>\n

  Rabbim dillerimizi yalandan-yanl\u0131\u015ftan \u2013bo\u015f konu\u015fmaktan haram\u2019a d\u00fc\u015fmekten muhafaza eylesin \u0130n\u015faAllah.<\/p>\n

  VelhamdulillahirRabbilAlemin<\/p>\n

  Selam ve Dua ile\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

  B\u0130SM\u0130LLAH\u0130RRAHMAN\u0130RRAH\u0130M Hamd Alemlerin Rabbi, Rahman, Rahim ve din g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn sahibi bizden \u00f6ncekilerin ve sonrakilerin yegane ilah\u0131, kulluk yap\u0131lmaya tek lay\u0131k olan Allah (C.C.) mahsustur. Nefislerimizin \u015ferrinden Amellerimizin fenal\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan ona s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131r\u0131z. Salat ve Selam Alemlere Rahmet insanl\u0131\u011fa hidayet olarak g\u00f6nderilen \u0130slam \u00fcmmetinin lideri m\u00fccahidlerin kumandan\u0131 ba\u015fkomutan Resulullah (s.a.v) onu takip eden m\u00fcminlerin \u00fczerine olsun \u0130n\u015fallah. \u0130slam […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":33,"featured_media":17051,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,251],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\n