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B\u0130SM\u0130LLAH\u0130RRAHMAN\u0130RRAH\u0130M<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Hamd alemleri yoktan var eden ye\u011fane hakimiyet sahibi Allah azze ve celle’yedir. O’na kulluk eder O’ndan yard\u0131m dileriz. Salat ve selam son Rasul Hz. Muhammed(s.a.v.)’e onun Ehl-i Beytine,sahabesine ve t\u00fcm m\u00fcminlerin \u00fczerine olsun.<\/p>\n

\u0130mam Gazali \u015f<\/em><\/strong>\u00f6<\/em><\/strong>yle buyurmu\u015ftur; nasihat etmek kolayd\u0131r, onu kabul etmek zordur. Nefislerine uyanlara, d<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>nya zevklerinin pe\u015finden ko\u015fanlara, nasihat ac\u0131,haramlar ise tatl\u0131 gelir.”<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Peki nedir nasihat?<\/p>\n

Nasihat; terim olarak bir kimsenin d\u00fczelmesini sa\u011flayan s\u00f6z\u00fc veya fiili ara\u015ft\u0131rmak, bir \u015feyi safla\u015ft\u0131rmak, yabanc\u0131 maddelerden ay\u0131rmak, samimi olmak, \u00f6\u011f\u00fct ve ak\u0131l vermek, yol g\u00f6stermek demektir.<\/p>\n

Nasihat asl\u0131nda \u0130slami davetin bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r. B\u00fct\u00fcn Peygamberlerde kavimlerine tebli\u011f yaparken asl\u0131nda nasihat etmi\u015fler yani onlara do\u011fru yolu onlar i\u00e7in faydal\u0131 olan\u0131 g\u00f6stermi\u015flerdir.<\/p>\n

Asl\u0131nda \u0130mam Gazali’nin nasihat hakk\u0131nda ki de\u011ferlendirmesi ki\u015fiyi epeyce bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcyor. Evet bazen ki\u015fi kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakine \u00e7ok g\u00fczel s\u00f6zler s\u00f6yler, hatta daha s\u00f6ylenecek ne kald\u0131 ki diyecek duruma dahi gelir. Fakat sonu\u00e7 her zaman hatta \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bizim istedi\u011fimiz gibi olmaz.<\/p>\n

\u0130\u015fte bunun sebebi s\u00f6ylenen s\u00f6zlerin nefislere a\u011f\u0131r gelmesi, ki\u015fi bunu onaylasa da genelde arkas\u0131ndan bir mazeret gelir.<\/p>\n

”\u0130mam Hattabi; nasihat ve felah kavramlar\u0131ndan ba\u015fka, d<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>nya ve ahiret hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 bir araya toplayan ba\u015fka bir kavram bilmiyorum.”<\/em><\/strong>demi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n

Asl\u0131nda nasihat\u00e7inin nasihatini kabul etmesinin yolu onu\u00a0 davet etti\u011fi o dini sevip onu istemesidir. Yoksa ki\u015fi hakl\u0131s\u0131n deyip de ayn\u0131 haline devam edecektir.<\/p>\n

Bir de \u015f\u00f6yle bir durum\u00a0 vard\u0131r ki \u0130slam ad\u0131na nasihatlerde bulunan insanlar toplum taraf\u0131ndan pek sevilmez. Onu g\u00f6r\u00fcnce ki\u015fi bo\u015f muhabbet yapmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildi\u011fi i\u00e7in ya yolunu de\u011fi\u015ftirir, yada g\u00f6rmemezlikten gelir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bilir onunla yani m\u00fcmin ki\u015filerle hak d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bat\u0131l s\u00f6z konu\u015famayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131.<\/p>\n

Bu her as\u0131rda b\u00f6yle olmu\u015ftur ki en g\u00fczel \u00f6rneklerde Peygamberlerdir. Salih(a.s.)’\u0131n k\u0131ssas\u0131na bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda onun nasihatine kulak vermeyen o kavmin helak oldu\u011funu\u00a0 ayetlerde ge\u00e7ti\u011fi \u00fczere bilmekteyiz.<\/p>\n

Salih a.s. onlar\u0131n yerde yatan cesetlerine bak\u0131p \u015f\u00f6yle demi\u015fti; ”Dedi ki; ey kavmim, ger<\/em><\/strong>\u00e7<\/em><\/strong>ekten ben aran\u0131zda size nasihat ve <\/em><\/strong>\u00f6<\/em><\/strong>\u011f<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>t vermek hususunda b<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>t<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>n g<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>c<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>m<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>, takatimi ortaya koydum. Fakat sizler <\/em><\/strong>\u00f6<\/em><\/strong>\u011f<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>t verenleri sevmezsiniz. Bu y<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>zden<\/em><\/strong> aleyhinize azap s<\/strong>\u00f6<\/strong>z<\/strong>\u00fc<\/strong> hak oldu.(araf-79)”<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/strong>Bug\u00fcn de ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde \u00f6\u011f\u00fct verenler sevilmemekte. \u00c7ok bilmi\u015f diye bak\u0131lmakta. Fakat\u00a0 bu d\u00fcnyada bizleri kurtulu\u015fa g\u00f6t\u00fcrecek nasihatlara kulak vermemenin sonucu ki\u015fi i\u00e7in h\u00fcsrand\u0131r. Bu d\u00fcnyada olmasa da ahirette ak\u0131bet bellidir. Ki\u015fi \u00e7ok pi\u015fman olur ama art\u0131k i\u015f i\u015ften ge\u00e7mi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n

Birde nasihata \u015fu a\u00e7\u0131dan bakal\u0131m ki ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hatas\u0131n\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcp uyaran derdi insanlara hakikati anlatmak olan\u00a0 M\u00fcsl\u00fcman bir fert kendisi acaba nasihatlere ne kadar a\u00e7\u0131k…?<\/p>\n

Ona bir hatas\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 s\u00f6ylendi\u011finde nas\u0131l bir tepki vermekte. Hemen \u00fcste \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p kendini hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kartma yollar\u0131na m\u0131 girmekte ? Yoksa hakl\u0131s\u0131n karde\u015fim deyip nefsini sorgulay\u0131p bu nasihatlere yol g\u00f6stermelere mi uymakta..? Demem o ki insanlara hakk\u0131 anlat\u0131rken onlar\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 uyar\u0131p \u00fczerlerindeki hasletlerini kald\u0131rmak i\u00e7in \u00e7abalarken, kendimizi unutmayal\u0131m.<\/p>\n

”M<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>min erkekler ve m<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>min kad\u0131nlar birbirlerinin velileridir. Onlar insanlara iyili\u011fi emreder, k<\/em><\/strong>\u00f6<\/em><\/strong>t<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>l<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>klerden al\u0131koymaya <\/em><\/strong>\u00e7<\/em><\/strong>al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar, namaz\u0131 dosdo\u011fru k\u0131larlar, zekat\u0131 verirler, Allah’a ve resul<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>ne itaat ederler, \u0130\u015fte bunlar\u0131 Allah rahmetiyle yarg\u0131layacakt\u0131r. <\/em><\/strong>\u00c7\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>nk<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong> Allah azizdir hakimdir.(tevbe-71)<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/em><\/strong>M\u00fcminler olarak bir birimizin destek\u00e7isi yard\u0131mc\u0131s\u0131 olal\u0131m ba\u015fkalar\u0131na yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z nasihatleri \u00f6nce kendimiz alal\u0131m ki Allah azze ve celle’ni rahmetiyle yarg\u0131lanal\u0131m in\u015fallah..<\/p>\n

VELHAMDUL\u0130LLAH\u0130RABB\u0130LALEM\u0130N<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

B\u0130SM\u0130LLAH\u0130RRAHMAN\u0130RRAH\u0130M \u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Hamd alemleri yoktan var eden ye\u011fane hakimiyet sahibi Allah azze ve celle’yedir. O’na kulluk eder O’ndan yard\u0131m dileriz. Salat ve selam son Rasul Hz. Muhammed(s.a.v.)’e onun Ehl-i Beytine,sahabesine ve t\u00fcm m\u00fcminlerin \u00fczerine olsun. ”\u0130mam Gazali \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015ftur; nasihat etmek kolayd\u0131r, onu kabul etmek zordur. Nefislerine uyanlara, d\u00fcnya zevklerinin pe\u015finden ko\u015fanlara, nasihat ac\u0131,haramlar ise […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":15486,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\nNAS\u0130HATE KULAK VER Nedir? • Ebrar Medya<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"B\u0130SM\u0130LLAH\u0130RRAHMAN\u0130RRAH\u0130M\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Hamd alemleri yoktan var eden ye\u011fane hakimiyet sahibi Allah azze ve celle'yedir. O'na kulluk eder O'ndan yard\u0131m dileriz. Salat ve selam son Rasul Hz. Muhammed(s.a.v.)'e onun Ehl-i Beytine,sahabesine ve t\u00fcm m\u00fcminlerin \u00fczerine olsun.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 ''\u0130mam Gazali \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015ftur; nasihat etmek kolayd\u0131r, onu kabul etmek zordur. Nefislerine uyanlara, d\u00fcnya zevklerinin pe\u015finden ko\u015fanlara, nasihat ac\u0131,haramlar ise tatl\u0131 gelir.''\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Peki nedir nasihat?Nasihat; terim olarak bir kimsenin d\u00fczelmesini sa\u011flayan s\u00f6z\u00fc veya fiili ara\u015ft\u0131rmak, bir \u015feyi safla\u015ft\u0131rmak, yabanc\u0131 maddelerden ay\u0131rmak, samimi olmak, \u00f6\u011f\u00fct ve ak\u0131l vermek, yol g\u00f6stermek demektir.\u00a0\u00a0 Nasihat asl\u0131nda \u0130slami davetin bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r. B\u00fct\u00fcn Peygamberlerde kavimlerine tebli\u011f yaparken asl\u0131nda nasihat etmi\u015fler yani onlara do\u011fru yolu onlar i\u00e7in faydal\u0131 olan\u0131 g\u00f6stermi\u015flerdir.\u00a0\u00a0 Asl\u0131nda \u0130mam Gazali'nin nasihat hakk\u0131nda ki de\u011ferlendirmesi ki\u015fiyi epeyce bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcyor. Evet bazen ki\u015fi kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakine \u00e7ok g\u00fczel s\u00f6zler s\u00f6yler, hatta daha s\u00f6ylenecek ne kald\u0131 ki diyecek duruma dahi gelir. Fakat sonu\u00e7 her zaman hatta \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bizim istedi\u011fimiz gibi olmaz.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u0130\u015fte bunun sebebi s\u00f6ylenen s\u00f6zlerin nefislere a\u011f\u0131r gelmesi, ki\u015fi bunu onaylasa da genelde arkas\u0131ndan bir mazeret gelir.''\u0130mam Hattabi; nasihat ve felah kavramlar\u0131ndan ba\u015fka, d\u00fcnya ve ahiret hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 bir araya toplayan ba\u015fka bir kavram bilmiyorum.''demi\u015ftir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Asl\u0131nda nasihat\u00e7inin nasihatini kabul etmesinin yolu onu\u00a0 davet etti\u011fi o dini sevip onu istemesidir. Yoksa ki\u015fi hakl\u0131s\u0131n deyip de ayn\u0131 haline devam edecektir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bir de \u015f\u00f6yle bir durum\u00a0 vard\u0131r ki \u0130slam ad\u0131na nasihatlerde bulunan insanlar toplum taraf\u0131ndan pek sevilmez. Onu g\u00f6r\u00fcnce ki\u015fi bo\u015f muhabbet yapmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildi\u011fi i\u00e7in ya yolunu de\u011fi\u015ftirir, yada g\u00f6rmemezlikten gelir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bilir onunla yani m\u00fcmin ki\u015filerle hak d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bat\u0131l s\u00f6z konu\u015famayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bu her as\u0131rda b\u00f6yle olmu\u015ftur ki en g\u00fczel \u00f6rneklerde Peygamberlerdir. Salih(a.s.)'\u0131n k\u0131ssas\u0131na bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda onun nasihatine kulak vermeyen o kavmin helak oldu\u011funu\u00a0 ayetlerde ge\u00e7ti\u011fi \u00fczere bilmekteyiz.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Salih a.s. onlar\u0131n yerde yatan cesetlerine bak\u0131p \u015f\u00f6yle demi\u015fti; ''Dedi ki; ey kavmim, ger\u00e7ekten ben aran\u0131zda size nasihat ve \u00f6\u011f\u00fct vermek hususunda b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fc, takatimi ortaya koydum. Fakat sizler \u00f6\u011f\u00fct verenleri sevmezsiniz. Bu y\u00fczden aleyhinize azap s\u00f6z\u00fc hak oldu.(araf-79)''\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bug\u00fcn de ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde \u00f6\u011f\u00fct verenler sevilmemekte. \u00c7ok bilmi\u015f diye bak\u0131lmakta. Fakat\u00a0 bu d\u00fcnyada bizleri kurtulu\u015fa g\u00f6t\u00fcrecek nasihatlara kulak vermemenin sonucu ki\u015fi i\u00e7in h\u00fcsrand\u0131r. Bu d\u00fcnyada olmasa da ahirette ak\u0131bet bellidir. Ki\u015fi \u00e7ok pi\u015fman olur ama art\u0131k i\u015f i\u015ften ge\u00e7mi\u015ftir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Birde nasihata \u015fu a\u00e7\u0131dan bakal\u0131m ki ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hatas\u0131n\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcp uyaran derdi insanlara hakikati anlatmak olan\u00a0 M\u00fcsl\u00fcman bir fert kendisi acaba nasihatlere ne kadar a\u00e7\u0131k...?\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ona bir hatas\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 s\u00f6ylendi\u011finde nas\u0131l bir tepki vermekte. Hemen \u00fcste \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p kendini hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kartma yollar\u0131na m\u0131 girmekte ? Yoksa hakl\u0131s\u0131n karde\u015fim deyip nefsini sorgulay\u0131p bu nasihatlere yol g\u00f6stermelere mi uymakta..? Demem o ki insanlara hakk\u0131 anlat\u0131rken onlar\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 uyar\u0131p \u00fczerlerindeki hasletlerini kald\u0131rmak i\u00e7in \u00e7abalarken, kendimizi unutmayal\u0131m.\u00a0\u00a0 ''M\u00fcmin erkekler ve m\u00fcmin kad\u0131nlar birbirlerinin velileridir. Onlar insanlara iyili\u011fi emreder, k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklerden al\u0131koymaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar, namaz\u0131 dosdo\u011fru k\u0131larlar, zekat\u0131 verirler, Allah'a ve resul\u00fcne itaat ederler, \u0130\u015fte bunlar\u0131 Allah rahmetiyle yarg\u0131layacakt\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Allah azizdir hakimdir.(tevbe-71)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 M\u00fcminler olarak bir birimizin destek\u00e7isi yard\u0131mc\u0131s\u0131 olal\u0131m ba\u015fkalar\u0131na yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z nasihatleri \u00f6nce kendimiz alal\u0131m ki Allah azze ve celle'ni rahmetiyle yarg\u0131lanal\u0131m in\u015fallah..\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 VELHAMDUL\u0130LLAH\u0130RABB\u0130LALEM\u0130N\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/nasihate-kulak-ver\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"tr_TR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"NAS\u0130HATE KULAK VER Nedir? • Ebrar Medya\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"B\u0130SM\u0130LLAH\u0130RRAHMAN\u0130RRAH\u0130M\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Hamd alemleri yoktan var eden ye\u011fane hakimiyet sahibi Allah azze ve celle'yedir. O'na kulluk eder O'ndan yard\u0131m dileriz. Salat ve selam son Rasul Hz. Muhammed(s.a.v.)'e onun Ehl-i Beytine,sahabesine ve t\u00fcm m\u00fcminlerin \u00fczerine olsun.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 ''\u0130mam Gazali \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015ftur; nasihat etmek kolayd\u0131r, onu kabul etmek zordur. Nefislerine uyanlara, d\u00fcnya zevklerinin pe\u015finden ko\u015fanlara, nasihat ac\u0131,haramlar ise tatl\u0131 gelir.''\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Peki nedir nasihat?Nasihat; terim olarak bir kimsenin d\u00fczelmesini sa\u011flayan s\u00f6z\u00fc veya fiili ara\u015ft\u0131rmak, bir \u015feyi safla\u015ft\u0131rmak, yabanc\u0131 maddelerden ay\u0131rmak, samimi olmak, \u00f6\u011f\u00fct ve ak\u0131l vermek, yol g\u00f6stermek demektir.\u00a0\u00a0 Nasihat asl\u0131nda \u0130slami davetin bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r. B\u00fct\u00fcn Peygamberlerde kavimlerine tebli\u011f yaparken asl\u0131nda nasihat etmi\u015fler yani onlara do\u011fru yolu onlar i\u00e7in faydal\u0131 olan\u0131 g\u00f6stermi\u015flerdir.\u00a0\u00a0 Asl\u0131nda \u0130mam Gazali'nin nasihat hakk\u0131nda ki de\u011ferlendirmesi ki\u015fiyi epeyce bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcyor. Evet bazen ki\u015fi kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakine \u00e7ok g\u00fczel s\u00f6zler s\u00f6yler, hatta daha s\u00f6ylenecek ne kald\u0131 ki diyecek duruma dahi gelir. Fakat sonu\u00e7 her zaman hatta \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bizim istedi\u011fimiz gibi olmaz.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u0130\u015fte bunun sebebi s\u00f6ylenen s\u00f6zlerin nefislere a\u011f\u0131r gelmesi, ki\u015fi bunu onaylasa da genelde arkas\u0131ndan bir mazeret gelir.''\u0130mam Hattabi; nasihat ve felah kavramlar\u0131ndan ba\u015fka, d\u00fcnya ve ahiret hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 bir araya toplayan ba\u015fka bir kavram bilmiyorum.''demi\u015ftir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Asl\u0131nda nasihat\u00e7inin nasihatini kabul etmesinin yolu onu\u00a0 davet etti\u011fi o dini sevip onu istemesidir. Yoksa ki\u015fi hakl\u0131s\u0131n deyip de ayn\u0131 haline devam edecektir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bir de \u015f\u00f6yle bir durum\u00a0 vard\u0131r ki \u0130slam ad\u0131na nasihatlerde bulunan insanlar toplum taraf\u0131ndan pek sevilmez. Onu g\u00f6r\u00fcnce ki\u015fi bo\u015f muhabbet yapmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildi\u011fi i\u00e7in ya yolunu de\u011fi\u015ftirir, yada g\u00f6rmemezlikten gelir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bilir onunla yani m\u00fcmin ki\u015filerle hak d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bat\u0131l s\u00f6z konu\u015famayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bu her as\u0131rda b\u00f6yle olmu\u015ftur ki en g\u00fczel \u00f6rneklerde Peygamberlerdir. Salih(a.s.)'\u0131n k\u0131ssas\u0131na bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda onun nasihatine kulak vermeyen o kavmin helak oldu\u011funu\u00a0 ayetlerde ge\u00e7ti\u011fi \u00fczere bilmekteyiz.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Salih a.s. onlar\u0131n yerde yatan cesetlerine bak\u0131p \u015f\u00f6yle demi\u015fti; ''Dedi ki; ey kavmim, ger\u00e7ekten ben aran\u0131zda size nasihat ve \u00f6\u011f\u00fct vermek hususunda b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fc, takatimi ortaya koydum. Fakat sizler \u00f6\u011f\u00fct verenleri sevmezsiniz. Bu y\u00fczden aleyhinize azap s\u00f6z\u00fc hak oldu.(araf-79)''\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bug\u00fcn de ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde \u00f6\u011f\u00fct verenler sevilmemekte. \u00c7ok bilmi\u015f diye bak\u0131lmakta. Fakat\u00a0 bu d\u00fcnyada bizleri kurtulu\u015fa g\u00f6t\u00fcrecek nasihatlara kulak vermemenin sonucu ki\u015fi i\u00e7in h\u00fcsrand\u0131r. Bu d\u00fcnyada olmasa da ahirette ak\u0131bet bellidir. Ki\u015fi \u00e7ok pi\u015fman olur ama art\u0131k i\u015f i\u015ften ge\u00e7mi\u015ftir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Birde nasihata \u015fu a\u00e7\u0131dan bakal\u0131m ki ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hatas\u0131n\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcp uyaran derdi insanlara hakikati anlatmak olan\u00a0 M\u00fcsl\u00fcman bir fert kendisi acaba nasihatlere ne kadar a\u00e7\u0131k...?\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ona bir hatas\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 s\u00f6ylendi\u011finde nas\u0131l bir tepki vermekte. Hemen \u00fcste \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p kendini hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kartma yollar\u0131na m\u0131 girmekte ? Yoksa hakl\u0131s\u0131n karde\u015fim deyip nefsini sorgulay\u0131p bu nasihatlere yol g\u00f6stermelere mi uymakta..? Demem o ki insanlara hakk\u0131 anlat\u0131rken onlar\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 uyar\u0131p \u00fczerlerindeki hasletlerini kald\u0131rmak i\u00e7in \u00e7abalarken, kendimizi unutmayal\u0131m.\u00a0\u00a0 ''M\u00fcmin erkekler ve m\u00fcmin kad\u0131nlar birbirlerinin velileridir. 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Bu y\u00fczden aleyhinize azap s\u00f6z\u00fc hak oldu.(araf-79)''\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bug\u00fcn de ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde \u00f6\u011f\u00fct verenler sevilmemekte. \u00c7ok bilmi\u015f diye bak\u0131lmakta. Fakat\u00a0 bu d\u00fcnyada bizleri kurtulu\u015fa g\u00f6t\u00fcrecek nasihatlara kulak vermemenin sonucu ki\u015fi i\u00e7in h\u00fcsrand\u0131r. Bu d\u00fcnyada olmasa da ahirette ak\u0131bet bellidir. Ki\u015fi \u00e7ok pi\u015fman olur ama art\u0131k i\u015f i\u015ften ge\u00e7mi\u015ftir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Birde nasihata \u015fu a\u00e7\u0131dan bakal\u0131m ki ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hatas\u0131n\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcp uyaran derdi insanlara hakikati anlatmak olan\u00a0 M\u00fcsl\u00fcman bir fert kendisi acaba nasihatlere ne kadar a\u00e7\u0131k...?\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ona bir hatas\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 s\u00f6ylendi\u011finde nas\u0131l bir tepki vermekte. Hemen \u00fcste \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p kendini hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kartma yollar\u0131na m\u0131 girmekte ? Yoksa hakl\u0131s\u0131n karde\u015fim deyip nefsini sorgulay\u0131p bu nasihatlere yol g\u00f6stermelere mi uymakta..? Demem o ki insanlara hakk\u0131 anlat\u0131rken onlar\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 uyar\u0131p \u00fczerlerindeki hasletlerini kald\u0131rmak i\u00e7in \u00e7abalarken, kendimizi unutmayal\u0131m.\u00a0\u00a0 ''M\u00fcmin erkekler ve m\u00fcmin kad\u0131nlar birbirlerinin velileridir. Onlar insanlara iyili\u011fi emreder, k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklerden al\u0131koymaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar, namaz\u0131 dosdo\u011fru k\u0131larlar, zekat\u0131 verirler, Allah'a ve resul\u00fcne itaat ederler, \u0130\u015fte bunlar\u0131 Allah rahmetiyle yarg\u0131layacakt\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Allah azizdir hakimdir.(tevbe-71)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 M\u00fcminler olarak bir birimizin destek\u00e7isi yard\u0131mc\u0131s\u0131 olal\u0131m ba\u015fkalar\u0131na yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z nasihatleri \u00f6nce kendimiz alal\u0131m ki Allah azze ve celle'ni rahmetiyle yarg\u0131lanal\u0131m in\u015fallah..\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 VELHAMDUL\u0130LLAH\u0130RABB\u0130LALEM\u0130N","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/nasihate-kulak-ver\/","og_locale":"tr_TR","og_type":"article","og_title":"NAS\u0130HATE KULAK VER Nedir? • Ebrar Medya","og_description":"B\u0130SM\u0130LLAH\u0130RRAHMAN\u0130RRAH\u0130M\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Hamd alemleri yoktan var eden ye\u011fane hakimiyet sahibi Allah azze ve celle'yedir. O'na kulluk eder O'ndan yard\u0131m dileriz. Salat ve selam son Rasul Hz. Muhammed(s.a.v.)'e onun Ehl-i Beytine,sahabesine ve t\u00fcm m\u00fcminlerin \u00fczerine olsun.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 ''\u0130mam Gazali \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015ftur; nasihat etmek kolayd\u0131r, onu kabul etmek zordur. Nefislerine uyanlara, d\u00fcnya zevklerinin pe\u015finden ko\u015fanlara, nasihat ac\u0131,haramlar ise tatl\u0131 gelir.''\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Peki nedir nasihat?Nasihat; terim olarak bir kimsenin d\u00fczelmesini sa\u011flayan s\u00f6z\u00fc veya fiili ara\u015ft\u0131rmak, bir \u015feyi safla\u015ft\u0131rmak, yabanc\u0131 maddelerden ay\u0131rmak, samimi olmak, \u00f6\u011f\u00fct ve ak\u0131l vermek, yol g\u00f6stermek demektir.\u00a0\u00a0 Nasihat asl\u0131nda \u0130slami davetin bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r. B\u00fct\u00fcn Peygamberlerde kavimlerine tebli\u011f yaparken asl\u0131nda nasihat etmi\u015fler yani onlara do\u011fru yolu onlar i\u00e7in faydal\u0131 olan\u0131 g\u00f6stermi\u015flerdir.\u00a0\u00a0 Asl\u0131nda \u0130mam Gazali'nin nasihat hakk\u0131nda ki de\u011ferlendirmesi ki\u015fiyi epeyce bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcyor. Evet bazen ki\u015fi kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakine \u00e7ok g\u00fczel s\u00f6zler s\u00f6yler, hatta daha s\u00f6ylenecek ne kald\u0131 ki diyecek duruma dahi gelir. Fakat sonu\u00e7 her zaman hatta \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bizim istedi\u011fimiz gibi olmaz.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u0130\u015fte bunun sebebi s\u00f6ylenen s\u00f6zlerin nefislere a\u011f\u0131r gelmesi, ki\u015fi bunu onaylasa da genelde arkas\u0131ndan bir mazeret gelir.''\u0130mam Hattabi; nasihat ve felah kavramlar\u0131ndan ba\u015fka, d\u00fcnya ve ahiret hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 bir araya toplayan ba\u015fka bir kavram bilmiyorum.''demi\u015ftir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Asl\u0131nda nasihat\u00e7inin nasihatini kabul etmesinin yolu onu\u00a0 davet etti\u011fi o dini sevip onu istemesidir. Yoksa ki\u015fi hakl\u0131s\u0131n deyip de ayn\u0131 haline devam edecektir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bir de \u015f\u00f6yle bir durum\u00a0 vard\u0131r ki \u0130slam ad\u0131na nasihatlerde bulunan insanlar toplum taraf\u0131ndan pek sevilmez. Onu g\u00f6r\u00fcnce ki\u015fi bo\u015f muhabbet yapmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildi\u011fi i\u00e7in ya yolunu de\u011fi\u015ftirir, yada g\u00f6rmemezlikten gelir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bilir onunla yani m\u00fcmin ki\u015filerle hak d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bat\u0131l s\u00f6z konu\u015famayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bu her as\u0131rda b\u00f6yle olmu\u015ftur ki en g\u00fczel \u00f6rneklerde Peygamberlerdir. Salih(a.s.)'\u0131n k\u0131ssas\u0131na bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda onun nasihatine kulak vermeyen o kavmin helak oldu\u011funu\u00a0 ayetlerde ge\u00e7ti\u011fi \u00fczere bilmekteyiz.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Salih a.s. onlar\u0131n yerde yatan cesetlerine bak\u0131p \u015f\u00f6yle demi\u015fti; ''Dedi ki; ey kavmim, ger\u00e7ekten ben aran\u0131zda size nasihat ve \u00f6\u011f\u00fct vermek hususunda b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fc, takatimi ortaya koydum. Fakat sizler \u00f6\u011f\u00fct verenleri sevmezsiniz. Bu y\u00fczden aleyhinize azap s\u00f6z\u00fc hak oldu.(araf-79)''\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bug\u00fcn de ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde \u00f6\u011f\u00fct verenler sevilmemekte. \u00c7ok bilmi\u015f diye bak\u0131lmakta. Fakat\u00a0 bu d\u00fcnyada bizleri kurtulu\u015fa g\u00f6t\u00fcrecek nasihatlara kulak vermemenin sonucu ki\u015fi i\u00e7in h\u00fcsrand\u0131r. Bu d\u00fcnyada olmasa da ahirette ak\u0131bet bellidir. Ki\u015fi \u00e7ok pi\u015fman olur ama art\u0131k i\u015f i\u015ften ge\u00e7mi\u015ftir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Birde nasihata \u015fu a\u00e7\u0131dan bakal\u0131m ki ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hatas\u0131n\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcp uyaran derdi insanlara hakikati anlatmak olan\u00a0 M\u00fcsl\u00fcman bir fert kendisi acaba nasihatlere ne kadar a\u00e7\u0131k...?\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ona bir hatas\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 s\u00f6ylendi\u011finde nas\u0131l bir tepki vermekte. Hemen \u00fcste \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p kendini hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kartma yollar\u0131na m\u0131 girmekte ? Yoksa hakl\u0131s\u0131n karde\u015fim deyip nefsini sorgulay\u0131p bu nasihatlere yol g\u00f6stermelere mi uymakta..? Demem o ki insanlara hakk\u0131 anlat\u0131rken onlar\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 uyar\u0131p \u00fczerlerindeki hasletlerini kald\u0131rmak i\u00e7in \u00e7abalarken, kendimizi unutmayal\u0131m.\u00a0\u00a0 ''M\u00fcmin erkekler ve m\u00fcmin kad\u0131nlar birbirlerinin velileridir. Onlar insanlara iyili\u011fi emreder, k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklerden al\u0131koymaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar, namaz\u0131 dosdo\u011fru k\u0131larlar, zekat\u0131 verirler, Allah'a ve resul\u00fcne itaat ederler, \u0130\u015fte bunlar\u0131 Allah rahmetiyle yarg\u0131layacakt\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Allah azizdir hakimdir.(tevbe-71)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 M\u00fcminler olarak bir birimizin destek\u00e7isi yard\u0131mc\u0131s\u0131 olal\u0131m ba\u015fkalar\u0131na yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z nasihatleri \u00f6nce kendimiz alal\u0131m ki Allah azze ve celle'ni rahmetiyle yarg\u0131lanal\u0131m in\u015fallah..\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 VELHAMDUL\u0130LLAH\u0130RABB\u0130LALEM\u0130N","og_url":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/nasihate-kulak-ver\/","og_site_name":"Ebrar Medya","article_publisher":"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/ebrarmedyacom\/","article_published_time":"2021-04-23T08:26:17+00:00","og_image":[{"width":730,"height":360,"url":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/RAVZA-\u00d6NDER.jpg","type":"image\/jpeg"}],"author":"RAVZA \u00d6NDER","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_creator":"@ebrarmedyacom","twitter_site":"@ebrarmedyacom","twitter_misc":{"Yazan:":"RAVZA \u00d6NDER","Tahmini okuma s\u00fcresi":"3 dakika"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/nasihate-kulak-ver\/#article","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/nasihate-kulak-ver\/"},"author":{"name":"RAVZA \u00d6NDER","@id":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/#\/schema\/person\/29b128d719397cd95afcca502424911b"},"headline":"NAS\u0130HATE KULAK VER","datePublished":"2021-04-23T08:26:17+00:00","dateModified":"2021-04-23T08:26:17+00:00","mainEntityOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/nasihate-kulak-ver\/"},"wordCount":689,"commentCount":0,"publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/#organization"},"articleSection":["G\u00dcNDEM"],"inLanguage":"tr","potentialAction":[{"@type":"CommentAction","name":"Comment","target":["https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/nasihate-kulak-ver\/#respond"]}]},{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/nasihate-kulak-ver\/","url":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/nasihate-kulak-ver\/","name":"NAS\u0130HATE KULAK VER Nedir? • Ebrar Medya","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/#website"},"datePublished":"2021-04-23T08:26:17+00:00","dateModified":"2021-04-23T08:26:17+00:00","description":"B\u0130SM\u0130LLAH\u0130RRAHMAN\u0130RRAH\u0130M\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Hamd alemleri yoktan var eden ye\u011fane hakimiyet sahibi Allah azze ve celle'yedir. O'na kulluk eder O'ndan yard\u0131m dileriz. Salat ve selam son Rasul Hz. Muhammed(s.a.v.)'e onun Ehl-i Beytine,sahabesine ve t\u00fcm m\u00fcminlerin \u00fczerine olsun.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 ''\u0130mam Gazali \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015ftur; nasihat etmek kolayd\u0131r, onu kabul etmek zordur. Nefislerine uyanlara, d\u00fcnya zevklerinin pe\u015finden ko\u015fanlara, nasihat ac\u0131,haramlar ise tatl\u0131 gelir.''\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Peki nedir nasihat?Nasihat; terim olarak bir kimsenin d\u00fczelmesini sa\u011flayan s\u00f6z\u00fc veya fiili ara\u015ft\u0131rmak, bir \u015feyi safla\u015ft\u0131rmak, yabanc\u0131 maddelerden ay\u0131rmak, samimi olmak, \u00f6\u011f\u00fct ve ak\u0131l vermek, yol g\u00f6stermek demektir.\u00a0\u00a0 Nasihat asl\u0131nda \u0130slami davetin bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r. B\u00fct\u00fcn Peygamberlerde kavimlerine tebli\u011f yaparken asl\u0131nda nasihat etmi\u015fler yani onlara do\u011fru yolu onlar i\u00e7in faydal\u0131 olan\u0131 g\u00f6stermi\u015flerdir.\u00a0\u00a0 Asl\u0131nda \u0130mam Gazali'nin nasihat hakk\u0131nda ki de\u011ferlendirmesi ki\u015fiyi epeyce bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcr\u00fcyor. Evet bazen ki\u015fi kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndakine \u00e7ok g\u00fczel s\u00f6zler s\u00f6yler, hatta daha s\u00f6ylenecek ne kald\u0131 ki diyecek duruma dahi gelir. Fakat sonu\u00e7 her zaman hatta \u00e7o\u011fu zaman bizim istedi\u011fimiz gibi olmaz.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u0130\u015fte bunun sebebi s\u00f6ylenen s\u00f6zlerin nefislere a\u011f\u0131r gelmesi, ki\u015fi bunu onaylasa da genelde arkas\u0131ndan bir mazeret gelir.''\u0130mam Hattabi; nasihat ve felah kavramlar\u0131ndan ba\u015fka, d\u00fcnya ve ahiret hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 bir araya toplayan ba\u015fka bir kavram bilmiyorum.''demi\u015ftir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Asl\u0131nda nasihat\u00e7inin nasihatini kabul etmesinin yolu onu\u00a0 davet etti\u011fi o dini sevip onu istemesidir. Yoksa ki\u015fi hakl\u0131s\u0131n deyip de ayn\u0131 haline devam edecektir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bir de \u015f\u00f6yle bir durum\u00a0 vard\u0131r ki \u0130slam ad\u0131na nasihatlerde bulunan insanlar toplum taraf\u0131ndan pek sevilmez. Onu g\u00f6r\u00fcnce ki\u015fi bo\u015f muhabbet yapmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bildi\u011fi i\u00e7in ya yolunu de\u011fi\u015ftirir, yada g\u00f6rmemezlikten gelir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc bilir onunla yani m\u00fcmin ki\u015filerle hak d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda bat\u0131l s\u00f6z konu\u015famayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bu her as\u0131rda b\u00f6yle olmu\u015ftur ki en g\u00fczel \u00f6rneklerde Peygamberlerdir. Salih(a.s.)'\u0131n k\u0131ssas\u0131na bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda onun nasihatine kulak vermeyen o kavmin helak oldu\u011funu\u00a0 ayetlerde ge\u00e7ti\u011fi \u00fczere bilmekteyiz.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Salih a.s. onlar\u0131n yerde yatan cesetlerine bak\u0131p \u015f\u00f6yle demi\u015fti; ''Dedi ki; ey kavmim, ger\u00e7ekten ben aran\u0131zda size nasihat ve \u00f6\u011f\u00fct vermek hususunda b\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcc\u00fcm\u00fc, takatimi ortaya koydum. Fakat sizler \u00f6\u011f\u00fct verenleri sevmezsiniz. Bu y\u00fczden aleyhinize azap s\u00f6z\u00fc hak oldu.(araf-79)''\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bug\u00fcn de ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde \u00f6\u011f\u00fct verenler sevilmemekte. \u00c7ok bilmi\u015f diye bak\u0131lmakta. Fakat\u00a0 bu d\u00fcnyada bizleri kurtulu\u015fa g\u00f6t\u00fcrecek nasihatlara kulak vermemenin sonucu ki\u015fi i\u00e7in h\u00fcsrand\u0131r. Bu d\u00fcnyada olmasa da ahirette ak\u0131bet bellidir. Ki\u015fi \u00e7ok pi\u015fman olur ama art\u0131k i\u015f i\u015ften ge\u00e7mi\u015ftir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Birde nasihata \u015fu a\u00e7\u0131dan bakal\u0131m ki ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n hatas\u0131n\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcp uyaran derdi insanlara hakikati anlatmak olan\u00a0 M\u00fcsl\u00fcman bir fert kendisi acaba nasihatlere ne kadar a\u00e7\u0131k...?\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ona bir hatas\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f\u0131 s\u00f6ylendi\u011finde nas\u0131l bir tepki vermekte. Hemen \u00fcste \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p kendini hakl\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kartma yollar\u0131na m\u0131 girmekte ? Yoksa hakl\u0131s\u0131n karde\u015fim deyip nefsini sorgulay\u0131p bu nasihatlere yol g\u00f6stermelere mi uymakta..? Demem o ki insanlara hakk\u0131 anlat\u0131rken onlar\u0131n yanl\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 uyar\u0131p \u00fczerlerindeki hasletlerini kald\u0131rmak i\u00e7in \u00e7abalarken, kendimizi unutmayal\u0131m.\u00a0\u00a0 ''M\u00fcmin erkekler ve m\u00fcmin kad\u0131nlar birbirlerinin velileridir. 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