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B\u0130SM\u0130LLAH\u0130RRAHMAN\u0130RRAH\u0130M<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0 <\/em><\/strong>Hamd Allah(c.c.)’a mahsustur. O Allah ki, O’nun celal ve azametini idrak eden kalpler ve g\u00f6n\u00fcller \u015fa\u015fk\u0131na d\u00f6nerler. \u00d6yle Allah(c.c.) ki s\u0131rlar\u0131n gizliliklerine muttalidir. Kalplerin inceliklerini bilendir.Kalpleri diledi\u011fi \u015fekilde evirir \u00e7evirir, g\u00fcnahlar\u0131 affeder, ay\u0131plar\u0131 \u00f6rter, \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcleri ve h\u00fcz\u00fcnleri giderir. Salat ve selam Peygamberlerin efendisi olan, yoldan sapm\u0131\u015flara yol g\u00f6steren M\u00fcminlerin \u00f6nderi olan Hz.Muhammed(s.a.v.) ‘e ve onun temiz ashab\u0131na olsun.<\/p>\n

Abdullah b. Mesud diyor ki; Kurtulu\u015f \u015fu iki \u015feydedir, takva ve niyet.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Helak da \u015fu iki \u015feydedir; Allah’tan <\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>mit kesmek ve kendini be\u011fenmek.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Bir insan\u0131n kendini be\u011feniyor olmas\u0131 ne kadar k\u00f6t\u00fc olabilir diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir ki\u015fi. Fakat yukar\u0131da belirtildi\u011fi gibi ki\u015finin helak olmas\u0131na dahi sebep olacak tehlikeli bir durum kendini be\u011fenme hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131. Evet bu duruma bir hastal\u0131k g\u00f6z\u00fcyle bakabiliriz nas\u0131l ki tedavi edilmeyen bir hastal\u0131k ki\u015finin t\u00fcm organlar\u0131na yava\u015f yava\u015f yay\u0131l\u0131yor ve o ki\u015fiyi peri\u015fan ediyorsa bu da \u00f6yledir.Kalplerden at\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece yava\u015f yava\u015f b\u00fct\u00fcn bedenini saracak ve seni helak edicektir.<\/p>\n

Peki bu hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131n bizlerde olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l anlayabiliriz ki ondan kurtulal\u0131m. Cevab\u0131 ise biz de\u011fil M\u00fcminlerin annesi olan Hz. Ai\u015fe’den \u00f6\u011frenelim.<\/p>\n

Hz. Ai\u015fe’ye birisi \u015f<\/em><\/strong>\u00f6<\/em><\/strong>yle sordu:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

-\u0130yi bir insan oldu\u011fumu ne zaman anlar\u0131m?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0-G<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>nahkar oldu\u011funu anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n zaman.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

-G<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>nahkar oldu\u011fumu ne zaman anlar\u0131m?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

-\u0130yi bir insan oldu\u011funu d<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>\u015f<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>nd<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>\u011f<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>n zaman.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/em><\/strong>Bizlerin en b\u00fcy\u00fck hatas\u0131 bu olsa gerek ki hep kendimizi iyi ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc role sokar\u0131z. Ben iyi biriyim kimseye zarar\u0131m yok deriz. Ben ne yapm\u0131\u015f olabilirim ki s\u00fcrekli kitap okuyorum, \u00e7ok bilmi\u015flik yapanlar\u0131 beni dinlmeyenleri ilmimle susturuyorum\u00a0 vs. S\u0131ralar\u0131z bunlar\u0131 asl\u0131nda as\u0131l k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn s\u00fcrekli kendimizi \u00f6vmek yada \u00f6v\u00fclmeyi beklemek oldu\u011funu fark\u0131nda de\u011filiz. Bir \u00e7ok kere \u015fahit oldum ki ki\u015fi \u0130slam i\u00e7in yapt\u0131klar\u0131yla \u00f6v\u00fcnmekte bir de \u00fcst\u00fcne helal olsun sana beklemekte.Kendisinden daha az yorulanlar\u0131 ise k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rmekte k\u0131namakta.<\/p>\n

Peki\u00a0 bunun ad\u0131 kendini be\u011fenme de\u011fil de nedir? Kendini hep \u00fcstte g\u00f6rmek, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 ise k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rmek, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 en basit \u015feyle dahi b\u00f6b\u00fcrlenmek.<\/p>\n

\u015ea’bi \u015f<\/em><\/strong>\u00f6<\/em><\/strong>yle diyor: Eski zamanlarda ibadete d<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>\u015fk<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>n bir kimse vard\u0131. Y<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>r<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>d<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>\u011f<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong> zaman s<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>rekli onu bir bulut takip edip g<\/em><\/strong>\u00f6<\/em><\/strong>lgelendirirdi.Bir ba\u015fkas\u0131da onun g<\/em><\/strong>\u00f6<\/em><\/strong>lgesinden yararlanmak istedi\u011finde ibadete d<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>\u015fk<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>n olan ki\u015fi kendini be\u011fendi ve i<\/em><\/strong>\u00e7<\/em><\/strong>inden \u015f<\/em><\/strong>\u00f6<\/em><\/strong>yle dedi;-b<\/em><\/strong>\u00f6<\/em><\/strong>yle bir ki\u015fi bile benim g<\/em><\/strong>\u00f6<\/em><\/strong>lgemden istifade ediyor.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0 Ayr\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131nda ise bulut di\u011fer adam\u0131 takip etmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Bir daha ona gelmedi.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/em><\/strong>Ki\u015fi Allah(c.c.)i\u00e7in bir ibadet yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda e\u011fer bununla \u00f6v\u00fcn\u00fcrse i\u015fte bu \u015fekilde Allah(c.c.) Rahmetini yard\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 \u00fczerinden \u00e7eker de haberi olmaz.<\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/em><\/strong>\u00d6<\/em><\/strong>mer b. Abdulaziz hutbe okurken kendini be\u011fenme hissine kap\u0131l\u0131rsa yar\u0131da keser, yaz\u0131 yazarken be\u011fenme hissine kap\u0131l\u0131rsa ka\u011f\u0131d\u0131 y\u0131rtard\u0131. Her zaman \u015f<\/em><\/strong>\u00f6<\/em><\/strong>yle dua ederdi:-Allah’\u0131m nefsimin \u015ferrinden sana s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131r\u0131m.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/em><\/strong>Peki sen nefsinin \u015ferrinden ka\u00e7 kere Allah’a(c.c.) s\u0131\u011f\u0131nd\u0131n. Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n hay\u0131rlar\u0131, iyilikeri, insanlara anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n ilmi \u00e7ok g\u00fczel yap\u0131yorsun desinler diye ve seni \u00f6vs\u00fcnler diye mi yapt\u0131n? Bu \u00f6zellikle bir M\u00fcmin i\u00e7in okadar tehlikeli bir durum ki e\u011fer ki\u015fide varsa bir \u00e7ok \u015feyin do\u011fmas\u0131na sebebiyet verecektir.<\/p>\n

\u0130man Gazali \u0130hya-u ulum’id-din adl\u0131 kitab\u0131nda \u015f<\/em><\/strong>\u00f6<\/em><\/strong>yle bir konuya de\u011finmi\u015ftir. <\/em><\/strong>\u00d6<\/em><\/strong>vg<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong> ki\u015fiye iki y<\/em><\/strong>\u00f6<\/em><\/strong>nden zarar verir:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0–<\/em><\/strong>\u00d6<\/em><\/strong>vg<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong> onda kibir ve gurur meydana getirir, kibir ve gurur ise helak edicilerdir.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

–<\/em><\/strong>\u00d6<\/em><\/strong>v<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>leni hay\u0131rla <\/em><\/strong>\u00f6<\/em><\/strong>vd<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>\u011f<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong> zaman, bu <\/em><\/strong>\u00f6<\/em><\/strong>vmeden sevinir, hay\u0131r y<\/em><\/strong>\u00f6<\/em><\/strong>n<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>nden gev\u015fer ve nefsinden raz\u0131 olur. Oysa nefsinden raz\u0131 olan bir kimsenin <\/em><\/strong>\u00e7<\/em><\/strong>al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 azal\u0131r, zira nesfini kusurlu g<\/em><\/strong>\u00f6<\/em><\/strong>ren bir kimse ciddiyetle <\/em><\/strong>\u00e7<\/em><\/strong>al\u0131\u015fmaya koyulur. Ama diller, adam\u0131n lehinde <\/em><\/strong>\u00f6<\/em><\/strong>vg<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>ler d<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>zd<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>kleri zaman adam da hedefe vard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 zanneder,dolas\u0131yla gev\u015fer…<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 <\/em><\/strong>Gayemiz gev\u015femeden tembellik g\u00f6stermeden m\u00fccadele etmektir. Yapt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6rmeyelim, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 da k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rmeyelim. Kendi ilmimizle, konu\u015fmam\u0131zla, yazd\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zla \u00f6v\u00fcnmek asl\u0131nda fark\u0131nda olmadan bizi oldum havas\u0131na sokup gev\u015fekli\u011fe d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr. Kendini be\u011fenme, kibir, gurur ad\u0131 ne olursa olsun bir M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanda asla olmamas\u0131 gereken hallerdir. \u015eu ayet ile bitirelim.<\/p>\n

K<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>mseyerek surat as\u0131p insanlardan y<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>z <\/em><\/strong>\u00e7<\/em><\/strong>evirme ve yery<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>z<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>nde b<\/em><\/strong>\u00f6<\/em><\/strong>b<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>rlenerek y<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>r<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>me. <\/em><\/strong>\u00c7\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>nk<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong> Allah hi<\/em><\/strong>\u00e7<\/em><\/strong>bir kibirleneni, <\/em><\/strong>\u00f6<\/em><\/strong>v<\/em><\/strong>\u00fc<\/em><\/strong>ngeni sevmez.(lokman-18)<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

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B\u0130SM\u0130LLAH\u0130RRAHMAN\u0130RRAH\u0130M \u00a0 Hamd Allah(c.c.)’a mahsustur. O Allah ki, O’nun celal ve azametini idrak eden kalpler ve g\u00f6n\u00fcller \u015fa\u015fk\u0131na d\u00f6nerler. \u00d6yle Allah(c.c.) ki s\u0131rlar\u0131n gizliliklerine muttalidir. Kalplerin inceliklerini bilendir.Kalpleri diledi\u011fi \u015fekilde evirir \u00e7evirir, g\u00fcnahlar\u0131 affeder, ay\u0131plar\u0131 \u00f6rter, \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcleri ve h\u00fcz\u00fcnleri giderir. Salat ve selam Peygamberlerin efendisi olan, yoldan sapm\u0131\u015flara yol g\u00f6steren M\u00fcminlerin \u00f6nderi olan Hz.Muhammed(s.a.v.) ‘e […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":12388,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[251],"tags":[],"yoast_head":"\nKEND\u0130N\u0130 BE\u011eENME Nedir? • Ebrar Medya<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0 Hamd Allah(c.c.)'a mahsustur. O Allah ki, O'nun celal ve azametini idrak eden kalpler ve g\u00f6n\u00fcller \u015fa\u015fk\u0131na d\u00f6nerler. \u00d6yle Allah(c.c.) ki s\u0131rlar\u0131n gizliliklerine muttalidir. Kalplerin inceliklerini bilendir.Kalpleri diledi\u011fi \u015fekilde evirir \u00e7evirir, g\u00fcnahlar\u0131 affeder, ay\u0131plar\u0131 \u00f6rter, \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcleri ve h\u00fcz\u00fcnleri giderir. Salat ve selam Peygamberlerin efendisi olan, yoldan sapm\u0131\u015flara yol g\u00f6steren M\u00fcminlerin \u00f6nderi olan Hz.Muhammed(s.a.v.) 'e ve onun temiz ashab\u0131na olsun.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Abdullah b. Mesud diyor ki; Kurtulu\u015f \u015fu iki \u015feydedir, takva ve niyet.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Helak da \u015fu iki \u015feydedir; Allah'tan \u00fcmit kesmek ve kendini be\u011fenmek.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bir insan\u0131n kendini be\u011feniyor olmas\u0131 ne kadar k\u00f6t\u00fc olabilir diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir ki\u015fi. Fakat yukar\u0131da belirtildi\u011fi gibi ki\u015finin helak olmas\u0131na dahi sebep olacak tehlikeli bir durum kendini be\u011fenme hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131. Evet bu duruma bir hastal\u0131k g\u00f6z\u00fcyle bakabiliriz nas\u0131l ki tedavi edilmeyen bir hastal\u0131k ki\u015finin t\u00fcm organlar\u0131na yava\u015f yava\u015f yay\u0131l\u0131yor ve o ki\u015fiyi peri\u015fan ediyorsa bu da \u00f6yledir.Kalplerden at\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece yava\u015f yava\u015f b\u00fct\u00fcn bedenini saracak ve seni helak edicektir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Peki bu hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131n bizlerde olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l anlayabiliriz ki ondan kurtulal\u0131m. Cevab\u0131 ise biz de\u011fil M\u00fcminlerin annesi olan Hz. Ai\u015fe'den \u00f6\u011frenelim.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Hz. Ai\u015fe'ye birisi \u015f\u00f6yle sordu:-\u0130yi bir insan oldu\u011fumu ne zaman anlar\u0131m?\u00a0-G\u00fcnahkar oldu\u011funu anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n zaman.-G\u00fcnahkar oldu\u011fumu ne zaman anlar\u0131m?-\u0130yi bir insan oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn zaman.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bizlerin en b\u00fcy\u00fck hatas\u0131 bu olsa gerek ki hep kendimizi iyi ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc role sokar\u0131z. Ben iyi biriyim kimseye zarar\u0131m yok deriz. Ben ne yapm\u0131\u015f olabilirim ki s\u00fcrekli kitap okuyorum, \u00e7ok bilmi\u015flik yapanlar\u0131 beni dinlmeyenleri ilmimle susturuyorum\u00a0 vs. S\u0131ralar\u0131z bunlar\u0131 asl\u0131nda as\u0131l k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn s\u00fcrekli kendimizi \u00f6vmek yada \u00f6v\u00fclmeyi beklemek oldu\u011funu fark\u0131nda de\u011filiz. Bir \u00e7ok kere \u015fahit oldum ki ki\u015fi \u0130slam i\u00e7in yapt\u0131klar\u0131yla \u00f6v\u00fcnmekte bir de \u00fcst\u00fcne helal olsun sana beklemekte.Kendisinden daha az yorulanlar\u0131 ise k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rmekte k\u0131namakta.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Peki\u00a0 bunun ad\u0131 kendini be\u011fenme de\u011fil de nedir? Kendini hep \u00fcstte g\u00f6rmek, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 ise k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rmek, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 en basit \u015feyle dahi b\u00f6b\u00fcrlenmek.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u015ea'bi \u015f\u00f6yle diyor: Eski zamanlarda ibadete d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn bir kimse vard\u0131. Y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc zaman s\u00fcrekli onu bir bulut takip edip g\u00f6lgelendirirdi.Bir ba\u015fkas\u0131da onun g\u00f6lgesinden yararlanmak istedi\u011finde ibadete d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn olan ki\u015fi kendini be\u011fendi ve i\u00e7inden \u015f\u00f6yle dedi;-b\u00f6yle bir ki\u015fi bile benim g\u00f6lgemden istifade ediyor.\u00a0 Ayr\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131nda ise bulut di\u011fer adam\u0131 takip etmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Bir daha ona gelmedi.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ki\u015fi Allah(c.c.)i\u00e7in bir ibadet yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda e\u011fer bununla \u00f6v\u00fcn\u00fcrse i\u015fte bu \u015fekilde Allah(c.c.) Rahmetini yard\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 \u00fczerinden \u00e7eker de haberi olmaz.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00d6mer b. Abdulaziz hutbe okurken kendini be\u011fenme hissine kap\u0131l\u0131rsa yar\u0131da keser, yaz\u0131 yazarken be\u011fenme hissine kap\u0131l\u0131rsa ka\u011f\u0131d\u0131 y\u0131rtard\u0131. Her zaman \u015f\u00f6yle dua ederdi:-Allah'\u0131m nefsimin \u015ferrinden sana s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131r\u0131m.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Peki sen nefsinin \u015ferrinden ka\u00e7 kere Allah'a(c.c.) s\u0131\u011f\u0131nd\u0131n. Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n hay\u0131rlar\u0131, iyilikeri, insanlara anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n ilmi \u00e7ok g\u00fczel yap\u0131yorsun desinler diye ve seni \u00f6vs\u00fcnler diye mi yapt\u0131n? Bu \u00f6zellikle bir M\u00fcmin i\u00e7in okadar tehlikeli bir durum ki e\u011fer ki\u015fide varsa bir \u00e7ok \u015feyin do\u011fmas\u0131na sebebiyet verecektir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u0130man Gazali \u0130hya-u ulum'id-din adl\u0131 kitab\u0131nda \u015f\u00f6yle bir konuya de\u011finmi\u015ftir. \u00d6vg\u00fc ki\u015fiye iki y\u00f6nden zarar verir:\u00a0-\u00d6vg\u00fc onda kibir ve gurur meydana getirir, kibir ve gurur ise helak edicilerdir.-\u00d6v\u00fcleni hay\u0131rla \u00f6vd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc zaman, bu \u00f6vmeden sevinir, hay\u0131r y\u00f6n\u00fcnden gev\u015fer ve nefsinden raz\u0131 olur. Oysa nefsinden raz\u0131 olan bir kimsenin \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 azal\u0131r, zira nesfini kusurlu g\u00f6ren bir kimse ciddiyetle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya koyulur. Ama diller, adam\u0131n lehinde \u00f6vg\u00fcler d\u00fczd\u00fckleri zaman adam da hedefe vard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 zanneder,dolas\u0131yla gev\u015fer...\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Gayemiz gev\u015femeden tembellik g\u00f6stermeden m\u00fccadele etmektir. Yapt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6rmeyelim, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 da k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rmeyelim. Kendi ilmimizle, konu\u015fmam\u0131zla, yazd\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zla \u00f6v\u00fcnmek asl\u0131nda fark\u0131nda olmadan bizi oldum havas\u0131na sokup gev\u015fekli\u011fe d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr. Kendini be\u011fenme, kibir, gurur ad\u0131 ne olursa olsun bir M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanda asla olmamas\u0131 gereken hallerdir. \u015eu ayet ile bitirelim.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseyerek surat as\u0131p insanlardan y\u00fcz \u00e7evirme ve yery\u00fcz\u00fcnde b\u00f6b\u00fcrlenerek y\u00fcr\u00fcme. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Allah hi\u00e7bir kibirleneni, \u00f6v\u00fcngeni sevmez.(lokman-18)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Velhamdulillahi Rabbil Alemin \u00a0\u00a0\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/kendini-begenme\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"tr_TR\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"KEND\u0130N\u0130 BE\u011eENME Nedir? • Ebrar Medya\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0 Hamd Allah(c.c.)'a mahsustur. O Allah ki, O'nun celal ve azametini idrak eden kalpler ve g\u00f6n\u00fcller \u015fa\u015fk\u0131na d\u00f6nerler. \u00d6yle Allah(c.c.) ki s\u0131rlar\u0131n gizliliklerine muttalidir. Kalplerin inceliklerini bilendir.Kalpleri diledi\u011fi \u015fekilde evirir \u00e7evirir, g\u00fcnahlar\u0131 affeder, ay\u0131plar\u0131 \u00f6rter, \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcleri ve h\u00fcz\u00fcnleri giderir. Salat ve selam Peygamberlerin efendisi olan, yoldan sapm\u0131\u015flara yol g\u00f6steren M\u00fcminlerin \u00f6nderi olan Hz.Muhammed(s.a.v.) 'e ve onun temiz ashab\u0131na olsun.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Abdullah b. Mesud diyor ki; Kurtulu\u015f \u015fu iki \u015feydedir, takva ve niyet.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Helak da \u015fu iki \u015feydedir; Allah'tan \u00fcmit kesmek ve kendini be\u011fenmek.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bir insan\u0131n kendini be\u011feniyor olmas\u0131 ne kadar k\u00f6t\u00fc olabilir diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir ki\u015fi. Fakat yukar\u0131da belirtildi\u011fi gibi ki\u015finin helak olmas\u0131na dahi sebep olacak tehlikeli bir durum kendini be\u011fenme hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131. Evet bu duruma bir hastal\u0131k g\u00f6z\u00fcyle bakabiliriz nas\u0131l ki tedavi edilmeyen bir hastal\u0131k ki\u015finin t\u00fcm organlar\u0131na yava\u015f yava\u015f yay\u0131l\u0131yor ve o ki\u015fiyi peri\u015fan ediyorsa bu da \u00f6yledir.Kalplerden at\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece yava\u015f yava\u015f b\u00fct\u00fcn bedenini saracak ve seni helak edicektir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Peki bu hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131n bizlerde olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l anlayabiliriz ki ondan kurtulal\u0131m. Cevab\u0131 ise biz de\u011fil M\u00fcminlerin annesi olan Hz. Ai\u015fe'den \u00f6\u011frenelim.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Hz. Ai\u015fe'ye birisi \u015f\u00f6yle sordu:-\u0130yi bir insan oldu\u011fumu ne zaman anlar\u0131m?\u00a0-G\u00fcnahkar oldu\u011funu anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n zaman.-G\u00fcnahkar oldu\u011fumu ne zaman anlar\u0131m?-\u0130yi bir insan oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn zaman.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bizlerin en b\u00fcy\u00fck hatas\u0131 bu olsa gerek ki hep kendimizi iyi ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc role sokar\u0131z. Ben iyi biriyim kimseye zarar\u0131m yok deriz. Ben ne yapm\u0131\u015f olabilirim ki s\u00fcrekli kitap okuyorum, \u00e7ok bilmi\u015flik yapanlar\u0131 beni dinlmeyenleri ilmimle susturuyorum\u00a0 vs. S\u0131ralar\u0131z bunlar\u0131 asl\u0131nda as\u0131l k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn s\u00fcrekli kendimizi \u00f6vmek yada \u00f6v\u00fclmeyi beklemek oldu\u011funu fark\u0131nda de\u011filiz. Bir \u00e7ok kere \u015fahit oldum ki ki\u015fi \u0130slam i\u00e7in yapt\u0131klar\u0131yla \u00f6v\u00fcnmekte bir de \u00fcst\u00fcne helal olsun sana beklemekte.Kendisinden daha az yorulanlar\u0131 ise k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rmekte k\u0131namakta.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Peki\u00a0 bunun ad\u0131 kendini be\u011fenme de\u011fil de nedir? Kendini hep \u00fcstte g\u00f6rmek, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 ise k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rmek, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 en basit \u015feyle dahi b\u00f6b\u00fcrlenmek.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u015ea'bi \u015f\u00f6yle diyor: Eski zamanlarda ibadete d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn bir kimse vard\u0131. Y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc zaman s\u00fcrekli onu bir bulut takip edip g\u00f6lgelendirirdi.Bir ba\u015fkas\u0131da onun g\u00f6lgesinden yararlanmak istedi\u011finde ibadete d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn olan ki\u015fi kendini be\u011fendi ve i\u00e7inden \u015f\u00f6yle dedi;-b\u00f6yle bir ki\u015fi bile benim g\u00f6lgemden istifade ediyor.\u00a0 Ayr\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131nda ise bulut di\u011fer adam\u0131 takip etmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Bir daha ona gelmedi.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ki\u015fi Allah(c.c.)i\u00e7in bir ibadet yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda e\u011fer bununla \u00f6v\u00fcn\u00fcrse i\u015fte bu \u015fekilde Allah(c.c.) Rahmetini yard\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 \u00fczerinden \u00e7eker de haberi olmaz.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00d6mer b. Abdulaziz hutbe okurken kendini be\u011fenme hissine kap\u0131l\u0131rsa yar\u0131da keser, yaz\u0131 yazarken be\u011fenme hissine kap\u0131l\u0131rsa ka\u011f\u0131d\u0131 y\u0131rtard\u0131. Her zaman \u015f\u00f6yle dua ederdi:-Allah'\u0131m nefsimin \u015ferrinden sana s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131r\u0131m.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Peki sen nefsinin \u015ferrinden ka\u00e7 kere Allah'a(c.c.) s\u0131\u011f\u0131nd\u0131n. Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n hay\u0131rlar\u0131, iyilikeri, insanlara anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n ilmi \u00e7ok g\u00fczel yap\u0131yorsun desinler diye ve seni \u00f6vs\u00fcnler diye mi yapt\u0131n? Bu \u00f6zellikle bir M\u00fcmin i\u00e7in okadar tehlikeli bir durum ki e\u011fer ki\u015fide varsa bir \u00e7ok \u015feyin do\u011fmas\u0131na sebebiyet verecektir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u0130man Gazali \u0130hya-u ulum'id-din adl\u0131 kitab\u0131nda \u015f\u00f6yle bir konuya de\u011finmi\u015ftir. \u00d6vg\u00fc ki\u015fiye iki y\u00f6nden zarar verir:\u00a0-\u00d6vg\u00fc onda kibir ve gurur meydana getirir, kibir ve gurur ise helak edicilerdir.-\u00d6v\u00fcleni hay\u0131rla \u00f6vd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc zaman, bu \u00f6vmeden sevinir, hay\u0131r y\u00f6n\u00fcnden gev\u015fer ve nefsinden raz\u0131 olur. Oysa nefsinden raz\u0131 olan bir kimsenin \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 azal\u0131r, zira nesfini kusurlu g\u00f6ren bir kimse ciddiyetle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya koyulur. Ama diller, adam\u0131n lehinde \u00f6vg\u00fcler d\u00fczd\u00fckleri zaman adam da hedefe vard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 zanneder,dolas\u0131yla gev\u015fer...\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Gayemiz gev\u015femeden tembellik g\u00f6stermeden m\u00fccadele etmektir. Yapt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6rmeyelim, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 da k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rmeyelim. Kendi ilmimizle, konu\u015fmam\u0131zla, yazd\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zla \u00f6v\u00fcnmek asl\u0131nda fark\u0131nda olmadan bizi oldum havas\u0131na sokup gev\u015fekli\u011fe d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr. 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O Allah ki, O'nun celal ve azametini idrak eden kalpler ve g\u00f6n\u00fcller \u015fa\u015fk\u0131na d\u00f6nerler. \u00d6yle Allah(c.c.) ki s\u0131rlar\u0131n gizliliklerine muttalidir. Kalplerin inceliklerini bilendir.Kalpleri diledi\u011fi \u015fekilde evirir \u00e7evirir, g\u00fcnahlar\u0131 affeder, ay\u0131plar\u0131 \u00f6rter, \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcleri ve h\u00fcz\u00fcnleri giderir. Salat ve selam Peygamberlerin efendisi olan, yoldan sapm\u0131\u015flara yol g\u00f6steren M\u00fcminlerin \u00f6nderi olan Hz.Muhammed(s.a.v.) 'e ve onun temiz ashab\u0131na olsun.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Abdullah b. Mesud diyor ki; Kurtulu\u015f \u015fu iki \u015feydedir, takva ve niyet.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Helak da \u015fu iki \u015feydedir; Allah'tan \u00fcmit kesmek ve kendini be\u011fenmek.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bir insan\u0131n kendini be\u011feniyor olmas\u0131 ne kadar k\u00f6t\u00fc olabilir diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir ki\u015fi. Fakat yukar\u0131da belirtildi\u011fi gibi ki\u015finin helak olmas\u0131na dahi sebep olacak tehlikeli bir durum kendini be\u011fenme hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131. Evet bu duruma bir hastal\u0131k g\u00f6z\u00fcyle bakabiliriz nas\u0131l ki tedavi edilmeyen bir hastal\u0131k ki\u015finin t\u00fcm organlar\u0131na yava\u015f yava\u015f yay\u0131l\u0131yor ve o ki\u015fiyi peri\u015fan ediyorsa bu da \u00f6yledir.Kalplerden at\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece yava\u015f yava\u015f b\u00fct\u00fcn bedenini saracak ve seni helak edicektir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Peki bu hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131n bizlerde olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l anlayabiliriz ki ondan kurtulal\u0131m. Cevab\u0131 ise biz de\u011fil M\u00fcminlerin annesi olan Hz. Ai\u015fe'den \u00f6\u011frenelim.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Hz. Ai\u015fe'ye birisi \u015f\u00f6yle sordu:-\u0130yi bir insan oldu\u011fumu ne zaman anlar\u0131m?\u00a0-G\u00fcnahkar oldu\u011funu anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n zaman.-G\u00fcnahkar oldu\u011fumu ne zaman anlar\u0131m?-\u0130yi bir insan oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn zaman.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bizlerin en b\u00fcy\u00fck hatas\u0131 bu olsa gerek ki hep kendimizi iyi ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc role sokar\u0131z. Ben iyi biriyim kimseye zarar\u0131m yok deriz. Ben ne yapm\u0131\u015f olabilirim ki s\u00fcrekli kitap okuyorum, \u00e7ok bilmi\u015flik yapanlar\u0131 beni dinlmeyenleri ilmimle susturuyorum\u00a0 vs. S\u0131ralar\u0131z bunlar\u0131 asl\u0131nda as\u0131l k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn s\u00fcrekli kendimizi \u00f6vmek yada \u00f6v\u00fclmeyi beklemek oldu\u011funu fark\u0131nda de\u011filiz. Bir \u00e7ok kere \u015fahit oldum ki ki\u015fi \u0130slam i\u00e7in yapt\u0131klar\u0131yla \u00f6v\u00fcnmekte bir de \u00fcst\u00fcne helal olsun sana beklemekte.Kendisinden daha az yorulanlar\u0131 ise k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rmekte k\u0131namakta.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Peki\u00a0 bunun ad\u0131 kendini be\u011fenme de\u011fil de nedir? Kendini hep \u00fcstte g\u00f6rmek, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 ise k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rmek, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 en basit \u015feyle dahi b\u00f6b\u00fcrlenmek.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u015ea'bi \u015f\u00f6yle diyor: Eski zamanlarda ibadete d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn bir kimse vard\u0131. Y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc zaman s\u00fcrekli onu bir bulut takip edip g\u00f6lgelendirirdi.Bir ba\u015fkas\u0131da onun g\u00f6lgesinden yararlanmak istedi\u011finde ibadete d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn olan ki\u015fi kendini be\u011fendi ve i\u00e7inden \u015f\u00f6yle dedi;-b\u00f6yle bir ki\u015fi bile benim g\u00f6lgemden istifade ediyor.\u00a0 Ayr\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131nda ise bulut di\u011fer adam\u0131 takip etmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Bir daha ona gelmedi.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ki\u015fi Allah(c.c.)i\u00e7in bir ibadet yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda e\u011fer bununla \u00f6v\u00fcn\u00fcrse i\u015fte bu \u015fekilde Allah(c.c.) Rahmetini yard\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 \u00fczerinden \u00e7eker de haberi olmaz.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00d6mer b. Abdulaziz hutbe okurken kendini be\u011fenme hissine kap\u0131l\u0131rsa yar\u0131da keser, yaz\u0131 yazarken be\u011fenme hissine kap\u0131l\u0131rsa ka\u011f\u0131d\u0131 y\u0131rtard\u0131. Her zaman \u015f\u00f6yle dua ederdi:-Allah'\u0131m nefsimin \u015ferrinden sana s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131r\u0131m.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Peki sen nefsinin \u015ferrinden ka\u00e7 kere Allah'a(c.c.) s\u0131\u011f\u0131nd\u0131n. Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n hay\u0131rlar\u0131, iyilikeri, insanlara anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n ilmi \u00e7ok g\u00fczel yap\u0131yorsun desinler diye ve seni \u00f6vs\u00fcnler diye mi yapt\u0131n? Bu \u00f6zellikle bir M\u00fcmin i\u00e7in okadar tehlikeli bir durum ki e\u011fer ki\u015fide varsa bir \u00e7ok \u015feyin do\u011fmas\u0131na sebebiyet verecektir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u0130man Gazali \u0130hya-u ulum'id-din adl\u0131 kitab\u0131nda \u015f\u00f6yle bir konuya de\u011finmi\u015ftir. \u00d6vg\u00fc ki\u015fiye iki y\u00f6nden zarar verir:\u00a0-\u00d6vg\u00fc onda kibir ve gurur meydana getirir, kibir ve gurur ise helak edicilerdir.-\u00d6v\u00fcleni hay\u0131rla \u00f6vd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc zaman, bu \u00f6vmeden sevinir, hay\u0131r y\u00f6n\u00fcnden gev\u015fer ve nefsinden raz\u0131 olur. Oysa nefsinden raz\u0131 olan bir kimsenin \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 azal\u0131r, zira nesfini kusurlu g\u00f6ren bir kimse ciddiyetle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya koyulur. 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O Allah ki, O'nun celal ve azametini idrak eden kalpler ve g\u00f6n\u00fcller \u015fa\u015fk\u0131na d\u00f6nerler. \u00d6yle Allah(c.c.) ki s\u0131rlar\u0131n gizliliklerine muttalidir. Kalplerin inceliklerini bilendir.Kalpleri diledi\u011fi \u015fekilde evirir \u00e7evirir, g\u00fcnahlar\u0131 affeder, ay\u0131plar\u0131 \u00f6rter, \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcleri ve h\u00fcz\u00fcnleri giderir. Salat ve selam Peygamberlerin efendisi olan, yoldan sapm\u0131\u015flara yol g\u00f6steren M\u00fcminlerin \u00f6nderi olan Hz.Muhammed(s.a.v.) 'e ve onun temiz ashab\u0131na olsun.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Abdullah b. Mesud diyor ki; Kurtulu\u015f \u015fu iki \u015feydedir, takva ve niyet.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Helak da \u015fu iki \u015feydedir; Allah'tan \u00fcmit kesmek ve kendini be\u011fenmek.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bir insan\u0131n kendini be\u011feniyor olmas\u0131 ne kadar k\u00f6t\u00fc olabilir diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir ki\u015fi. Fakat yukar\u0131da belirtildi\u011fi gibi ki\u015finin helak olmas\u0131na dahi sebep olacak tehlikeli bir durum kendini be\u011fenme hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131. Evet bu duruma bir hastal\u0131k g\u00f6z\u00fcyle bakabiliriz nas\u0131l ki tedavi edilmeyen bir hastal\u0131k ki\u015finin t\u00fcm organlar\u0131na yava\u015f yava\u015f yay\u0131l\u0131yor ve o ki\u015fiyi peri\u015fan ediyorsa bu da \u00f6yledir.Kalplerden at\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece yava\u015f yava\u015f b\u00fct\u00fcn bedenini saracak ve seni helak edicektir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Peki bu hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131n bizlerde olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l anlayabiliriz ki ondan kurtulal\u0131m. Cevab\u0131 ise biz de\u011fil M\u00fcminlerin annesi olan Hz. Ai\u015fe'den \u00f6\u011frenelim.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Hz. Ai\u015fe'ye birisi \u015f\u00f6yle sordu:-\u0130yi bir insan oldu\u011fumu ne zaman anlar\u0131m?\u00a0-G\u00fcnahkar oldu\u011funu anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n zaman.-G\u00fcnahkar oldu\u011fumu ne zaman anlar\u0131m?-\u0130yi bir insan oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn zaman.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bizlerin en b\u00fcy\u00fck hatas\u0131 bu olsa gerek ki hep kendimizi iyi ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc role sokar\u0131z. Ben iyi biriyim kimseye zarar\u0131m yok deriz. Ben ne yapm\u0131\u015f olabilirim ki s\u00fcrekli kitap okuyorum, \u00e7ok bilmi\u015flik yapanlar\u0131 beni dinlmeyenleri ilmimle susturuyorum\u00a0 vs. S\u0131ralar\u0131z bunlar\u0131 asl\u0131nda as\u0131l k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn s\u00fcrekli kendimizi \u00f6vmek yada \u00f6v\u00fclmeyi beklemek oldu\u011funu fark\u0131nda de\u011filiz. Bir \u00e7ok kere \u015fahit oldum ki ki\u015fi \u0130slam i\u00e7in yapt\u0131klar\u0131yla \u00f6v\u00fcnmekte bir de \u00fcst\u00fcne helal olsun sana beklemekte.Kendisinden daha az yorulanlar\u0131 ise k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rmekte k\u0131namakta.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Peki\u00a0 bunun ad\u0131 kendini be\u011fenme de\u011fil de nedir? Kendini hep \u00fcstte g\u00f6rmek, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 ise k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rmek, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 en basit \u015feyle dahi b\u00f6b\u00fcrlenmek.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u015ea'bi \u015f\u00f6yle diyor: Eski zamanlarda ibadete d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn bir kimse vard\u0131. Y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc zaman s\u00fcrekli onu bir bulut takip edip g\u00f6lgelendirirdi.Bir ba\u015fkas\u0131da onun g\u00f6lgesinden yararlanmak istedi\u011finde ibadete d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn olan ki\u015fi kendini be\u011fendi ve i\u00e7inden \u015f\u00f6yle dedi;-b\u00f6yle bir ki\u015fi bile benim g\u00f6lgemden istifade ediyor.\u00a0 Ayr\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131nda ise bulut di\u011fer adam\u0131 takip etmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Bir daha ona gelmedi.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ki\u015fi Allah(c.c.)i\u00e7in bir ibadet yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda e\u011fer bununla \u00f6v\u00fcn\u00fcrse i\u015fte bu \u015fekilde Allah(c.c.) Rahmetini yard\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 \u00fczerinden \u00e7eker de haberi olmaz.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00d6mer b. Abdulaziz hutbe okurken kendini be\u011fenme hissine kap\u0131l\u0131rsa yar\u0131da keser, yaz\u0131 yazarken be\u011fenme hissine kap\u0131l\u0131rsa ka\u011f\u0131d\u0131 y\u0131rtard\u0131. Her zaman \u015f\u00f6yle dua ederdi:-Allah'\u0131m nefsimin \u015ferrinden sana s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131r\u0131m.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Peki sen nefsinin \u015ferrinden ka\u00e7 kere Allah'a(c.c.) s\u0131\u011f\u0131nd\u0131n. Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n hay\u0131rlar\u0131, iyilikeri, insanlara anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n ilmi \u00e7ok g\u00fczel yap\u0131yorsun desinler diye ve seni \u00f6vs\u00fcnler diye mi yapt\u0131n? Bu \u00f6zellikle bir M\u00fcmin i\u00e7in okadar tehlikeli bir durum ki e\u011fer ki\u015fide varsa bir \u00e7ok \u015feyin do\u011fmas\u0131na sebebiyet verecektir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u0130man Gazali \u0130hya-u ulum'id-din adl\u0131 kitab\u0131nda \u015f\u00f6yle bir konuya de\u011finmi\u015ftir. \u00d6vg\u00fc ki\u015fiye iki y\u00f6nden zarar verir:\u00a0-\u00d6vg\u00fc onda kibir ve gurur meydana getirir, kibir ve gurur ise helak edicilerdir.-\u00d6v\u00fcleni hay\u0131rla \u00f6vd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc zaman, bu \u00f6vmeden sevinir, hay\u0131r y\u00f6n\u00fcnden gev\u015fer ve nefsinden raz\u0131 olur. Oysa nefsinden raz\u0131 olan bir kimsenin \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 azal\u0131r, zira nesfini kusurlu g\u00f6ren bir kimse ciddiyetle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya koyulur. Ama diller, adam\u0131n lehinde \u00f6vg\u00fcler d\u00fczd\u00fckleri zaman adam da hedefe vard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 zanneder,dolas\u0131yla gev\u015fer...\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Gayemiz gev\u015femeden tembellik g\u00f6stermeden m\u00fccadele etmektir. Yapt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6rmeyelim, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 da k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rmeyelim. Kendi ilmimizle, konu\u015fmam\u0131zla, yazd\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zla \u00f6v\u00fcnmek asl\u0131nda fark\u0131nda olmadan bizi oldum havas\u0131na sokup gev\u015fekli\u011fe d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr. Kendini be\u011fenme, kibir, gurur ad\u0131 ne olursa olsun bir M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanda asla olmamas\u0131 gereken hallerdir. \u015eu ayet ile bitirelim.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseyerek surat as\u0131p insanlardan y\u00fcz \u00e7evirme ve yery\u00fcz\u00fcnde b\u00f6b\u00fcrlenerek y\u00fcr\u00fcme. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Allah hi\u00e7bir kibirleneni, \u00f6v\u00fcngeni sevmez.(lokman-18)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Velhamdulillahi Rabbil Alemin \u00a0\u00a0","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/kendini-begenme\/","og_locale":"tr_TR","og_type":"article","og_title":"KEND\u0130N\u0130 BE\u011eENME Nedir? • Ebrar Medya","og_description":"\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0 Hamd Allah(c.c.)'a mahsustur. O Allah ki, O'nun celal ve azametini idrak eden kalpler ve g\u00f6n\u00fcller \u015fa\u015fk\u0131na d\u00f6nerler. \u00d6yle Allah(c.c.) ki s\u0131rlar\u0131n gizliliklerine muttalidir. Kalplerin inceliklerini bilendir.Kalpleri diledi\u011fi \u015fekilde evirir \u00e7evirir, g\u00fcnahlar\u0131 affeder, ay\u0131plar\u0131 \u00f6rter, \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcleri ve h\u00fcz\u00fcnleri giderir. Salat ve selam Peygamberlerin efendisi olan, yoldan sapm\u0131\u015flara yol g\u00f6steren M\u00fcminlerin \u00f6nderi olan Hz.Muhammed(s.a.v.) 'e ve onun temiz ashab\u0131na olsun.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Abdullah b. Mesud diyor ki; Kurtulu\u015f \u015fu iki \u015feydedir, takva ve niyet.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Helak da \u015fu iki \u015feydedir; Allah'tan \u00fcmit kesmek ve kendini be\u011fenmek.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bir insan\u0131n kendini be\u011feniyor olmas\u0131 ne kadar k\u00f6t\u00fc olabilir diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir ki\u015fi. Fakat yukar\u0131da belirtildi\u011fi gibi ki\u015finin helak olmas\u0131na dahi sebep olacak tehlikeli bir durum kendini be\u011fenme hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131. Evet bu duruma bir hastal\u0131k g\u00f6z\u00fcyle bakabiliriz nas\u0131l ki tedavi edilmeyen bir hastal\u0131k ki\u015finin t\u00fcm organlar\u0131na yava\u015f yava\u015f yay\u0131l\u0131yor ve o ki\u015fiyi peri\u015fan ediyorsa bu da \u00f6yledir.Kalplerden at\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece yava\u015f yava\u015f b\u00fct\u00fcn bedenini saracak ve seni helak edicektir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Peki bu hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131n bizlerde olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l anlayabiliriz ki ondan kurtulal\u0131m. Cevab\u0131 ise biz de\u011fil M\u00fcminlerin annesi olan Hz. Ai\u015fe'den \u00f6\u011frenelim.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Hz. Ai\u015fe'ye birisi \u015f\u00f6yle sordu:-\u0130yi bir insan oldu\u011fumu ne zaman anlar\u0131m?\u00a0-G\u00fcnahkar oldu\u011funu anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n zaman.-G\u00fcnahkar oldu\u011fumu ne zaman anlar\u0131m?-\u0130yi bir insan oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn zaman.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bizlerin en b\u00fcy\u00fck hatas\u0131 bu olsa gerek ki hep kendimizi iyi ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc role sokar\u0131z. Ben iyi biriyim kimseye zarar\u0131m yok deriz. Ben ne yapm\u0131\u015f olabilirim ki s\u00fcrekli kitap okuyorum, \u00e7ok bilmi\u015flik yapanlar\u0131 beni dinlmeyenleri ilmimle susturuyorum\u00a0 vs. S\u0131ralar\u0131z bunlar\u0131 asl\u0131nda as\u0131l k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn s\u00fcrekli kendimizi \u00f6vmek yada \u00f6v\u00fclmeyi beklemek oldu\u011funu fark\u0131nda de\u011filiz. Bir \u00e7ok kere \u015fahit oldum ki ki\u015fi \u0130slam i\u00e7in yapt\u0131klar\u0131yla \u00f6v\u00fcnmekte bir de \u00fcst\u00fcne helal olsun sana beklemekte.Kendisinden daha az yorulanlar\u0131 ise k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rmekte k\u0131namakta.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Peki\u00a0 bunun ad\u0131 kendini be\u011fenme de\u011fil de nedir? Kendini hep \u00fcstte g\u00f6rmek, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 ise k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rmek, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 en basit \u015feyle dahi b\u00f6b\u00fcrlenmek.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u015ea'bi \u015f\u00f6yle diyor: Eski zamanlarda ibadete d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn bir kimse vard\u0131. Y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc zaman s\u00fcrekli onu bir bulut takip edip g\u00f6lgelendirirdi.Bir ba\u015fkas\u0131da onun g\u00f6lgesinden yararlanmak istedi\u011finde ibadete d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn olan ki\u015fi kendini be\u011fendi ve i\u00e7inden \u015f\u00f6yle dedi;-b\u00f6yle bir ki\u015fi bile benim g\u00f6lgemden istifade ediyor.\u00a0 Ayr\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131nda ise bulut di\u011fer adam\u0131 takip etmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Bir daha ona gelmedi.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ki\u015fi Allah(c.c.)i\u00e7in bir ibadet yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda e\u011fer bununla \u00f6v\u00fcn\u00fcrse i\u015fte bu \u015fekilde Allah(c.c.) Rahmetini yard\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 \u00fczerinden \u00e7eker de haberi olmaz.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00d6mer b. Abdulaziz hutbe okurken kendini be\u011fenme hissine kap\u0131l\u0131rsa yar\u0131da keser, yaz\u0131 yazarken be\u011fenme hissine kap\u0131l\u0131rsa ka\u011f\u0131d\u0131 y\u0131rtard\u0131. Her zaman \u015f\u00f6yle dua ederdi:-Allah'\u0131m nefsimin \u015ferrinden sana s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131r\u0131m.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Peki sen nefsinin \u015ferrinden ka\u00e7 kere Allah'a(c.c.) s\u0131\u011f\u0131nd\u0131n. Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n hay\u0131rlar\u0131, iyilikeri, insanlara anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n ilmi \u00e7ok g\u00fczel yap\u0131yorsun desinler diye ve seni \u00f6vs\u00fcnler diye mi yapt\u0131n? Bu \u00f6zellikle bir M\u00fcmin i\u00e7in okadar tehlikeli bir durum ki e\u011fer ki\u015fide varsa bir \u00e7ok \u015feyin do\u011fmas\u0131na sebebiyet verecektir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u0130man Gazali \u0130hya-u ulum'id-din adl\u0131 kitab\u0131nda \u015f\u00f6yle bir konuya de\u011finmi\u015ftir. \u00d6vg\u00fc ki\u015fiye iki y\u00f6nden zarar verir:\u00a0-\u00d6vg\u00fc onda kibir ve gurur meydana getirir, kibir ve gurur ise helak edicilerdir.-\u00d6v\u00fcleni hay\u0131rla \u00f6vd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc zaman, bu \u00f6vmeden sevinir, hay\u0131r y\u00f6n\u00fcnden gev\u015fer ve nefsinden raz\u0131 olur. Oysa nefsinden raz\u0131 olan bir kimsenin \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 azal\u0131r, zira nesfini kusurlu g\u00f6ren bir kimse ciddiyetle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya koyulur. Ama diller, adam\u0131n lehinde \u00f6vg\u00fcler d\u00fczd\u00fckleri zaman adam da hedefe vard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 zanneder,dolas\u0131yla gev\u015fer...\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Gayemiz gev\u015femeden tembellik g\u00f6stermeden m\u00fccadele etmektir. Yapt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6rmeyelim, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 da k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rmeyelim. Kendi ilmimizle, konu\u015fmam\u0131zla, yazd\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zla \u00f6v\u00fcnmek asl\u0131nda fark\u0131nda olmadan bizi oldum havas\u0131na sokup gev\u015fekli\u011fe d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr. Kendini be\u011fenme, kibir, gurur ad\u0131 ne olursa olsun bir M\u00fcsl\u00fcmanda asla olmamas\u0131 gereken hallerdir. \u015eu ayet ile bitirelim.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcmseyerek surat as\u0131p insanlardan y\u00fcz \u00e7evirme ve yery\u00fcz\u00fcnde b\u00f6b\u00fcrlenerek y\u00fcr\u00fcme. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc Allah hi\u00e7bir kibirleneni, \u00f6v\u00fcngeni sevmez.(lokman-18)\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Velhamdulillahi Rabbil Alemin \u00a0\u00a0","og_url":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/kendini-begenme\/","og_site_name":"Ebrar Medya","article_publisher":"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/ebrarmedyacom\/","article_published_time":"2020-11-17T11:13:46+00:00","og_image":[{"width":730,"height":360,"url":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/RAVZA-\u00d6NDER.jpg","type":"image\/jpeg"}],"author":"RAVZA \u00d6NDER","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_creator":"@ebrarmedyacom","twitter_site":"@ebrarmedyacom","twitter_misc":{"Yazan:":"RAVZA \u00d6NDER","Tahmini okuma s\u00fcresi":"4 dakika"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/kendini-begenme\/#article","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/kendini-begenme\/"},"author":{"name":"RAVZA \u00d6NDER","@id":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/#\/schema\/person\/29b128d719397cd95afcca502424911b"},"headline":"KEND\u0130N\u0130 BE\u011eENME","datePublished":"2020-11-17T11:13:46+00:00","dateModified":"2020-11-17T11:13:46+00:00","mainEntityOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/kendini-begenme\/"},"wordCount":837,"commentCount":0,"publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/#organization"},"articleSection":["MAKALELER"],"inLanguage":"tr","potentialAction":[{"@type":"CommentAction","name":"Comment","target":["https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/kendini-begenme\/#respond"]}]},{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/kendini-begenme\/","url":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/kendini-begenme\/","name":"KEND\u0130N\u0130 BE\u011eENME Nedir? • Ebrar Medya","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.ebrarmedya.com\/#website"},"datePublished":"2020-11-17T11:13:46+00:00","dateModified":"2020-11-17T11:13:46+00:00","description":"\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0 Hamd Allah(c.c.)'a mahsustur. O Allah ki, O'nun celal ve azametini idrak eden kalpler ve g\u00f6n\u00fcller \u015fa\u015fk\u0131na d\u00f6nerler. \u00d6yle Allah(c.c.) ki s\u0131rlar\u0131n gizliliklerine muttalidir. Kalplerin inceliklerini bilendir.Kalpleri diledi\u011fi \u015fekilde evirir \u00e7evirir, g\u00fcnahlar\u0131 affeder, ay\u0131plar\u0131 \u00f6rter, \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fcleri ve h\u00fcz\u00fcnleri giderir. Salat ve selam Peygamberlerin efendisi olan, yoldan sapm\u0131\u015flara yol g\u00f6steren M\u00fcminlerin \u00f6nderi olan Hz.Muhammed(s.a.v.) 'e ve onun temiz ashab\u0131na olsun.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Abdullah b. Mesud diyor ki; Kurtulu\u015f \u015fu iki \u015feydedir, takva ve niyet.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Helak da \u015fu iki \u015feydedir; Allah'tan \u00fcmit kesmek ve kendini be\u011fenmek.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bir insan\u0131n kendini be\u011feniyor olmas\u0131 ne kadar k\u00f6t\u00fc olabilir diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilir ki\u015fi. Fakat yukar\u0131da belirtildi\u011fi gibi ki\u015finin helak olmas\u0131na dahi sebep olacak tehlikeli bir durum kendini be\u011fenme hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131. Evet bu duruma bir hastal\u0131k g\u00f6z\u00fcyle bakabiliriz nas\u0131l ki tedavi edilmeyen bir hastal\u0131k ki\u015finin t\u00fcm organlar\u0131na yava\u015f yava\u015f yay\u0131l\u0131yor ve o ki\u015fiyi peri\u015fan ediyorsa bu da \u00f6yledir.Kalplerden at\u0131lmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece yava\u015f yava\u015f b\u00fct\u00fcn bedenini saracak ve seni helak edicektir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Peki bu hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131n bizlerde olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l anlayabiliriz ki ondan kurtulal\u0131m. Cevab\u0131 ise biz de\u011fil M\u00fcminlerin annesi olan Hz. Ai\u015fe'den \u00f6\u011frenelim.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Hz. Ai\u015fe'ye birisi \u015f\u00f6yle sordu:-\u0130yi bir insan oldu\u011fumu ne zaman anlar\u0131m?\u00a0-G\u00fcnahkar oldu\u011funu anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n zaman.-G\u00fcnahkar oldu\u011fumu ne zaman anlar\u0131m?-\u0130yi bir insan oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn zaman.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Bizlerin en b\u00fcy\u00fck hatas\u0131 bu olsa gerek ki hep kendimizi iyi ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6t\u00fc role sokar\u0131z. Ben iyi biriyim kimseye zarar\u0131m yok deriz. Ben ne yapm\u0131\u015f olabilirim ki s\u00fcrekli kitap okuyorum, \u00e7ok bilmi\u015flik yapanlar\u0131 beni dinlmeyenleri ilmimle susturuyorum\u00a0 vs. S\u0131ralar\u0131z bunlar\u0131 asl\u0131nda as\u0131l k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn s\u00fcrekli kendimizi \u00f6vmek yada \u00f6v\u00fclmeyi beklemek oldu\u011funu fark\u0131nda de\u011filiz. Bir \u00e7ok kere \u015fahit oldum ki ki\u015fi \u0130slam i\u00e7in yapt\u0131klar\u0131yla \u00f6v\u00fcnmekte bir de \u00fcst\u00fcne helal olsun sana beklemekte.Kendisinden daha az yorulanlar\u0131 ise k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rmekte k\u0131namakta.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Peki\u00a0 bunun ad\u0131 kendini be\u011fenme de\u011fil de nedir? Kendini hep \u00fcstte g\u00f6rmek, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 ise k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rmek, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 en basit \u015feyle dahi b\u00f6b\u00fcrlenmek.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u015ea'bi \u015f\u00f6yle diyor: Eski zamanlarda ibadete d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn bir kimse vard\u0131. Y\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc zaman s\u00fcrekli onu bir bulut takip edip g\u00f6lgelendirirdi.Bir ba\u015fkas\u0131da onun g\u00f6lgesinden yararlanmak istedi\u011finde ibadete d\u00fc\u015fk\u00fcn olan ki\u015fi kendini be\u011fendi ve i\u00e7inden \u015f\u00f6yle dedi;-b\u00f6yle bir ki\u015fi bile benim g\u00f6lgemden istifade ediyor.\u00a0 Ayr\u0131ld\u0131klar\u0131nda ise bulut di\u011fer adam\u0131 takip etmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. Bir daha ona gelmedi.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Ki\u015fi Allah(c.c.)i\u00e7in bir ibadet yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda e\u011fer bununla \u00f6v\u00fcn\u00fcrse i\u015fte bu \u015fekilde Allah(c.c.) Rahmetini yard\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 \u00fczerinden \u00e7eker de haberi olmaz.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00d6mer b. Abdulaziz hutbe okurken kendini be\u011fenme hissine kap\u0131l\u0131rsa yar\u0131da keser, yaz\u0131 yazarken be\u011fenme hissine kap\u0131l\u0131rsa ka\u011f\u0131d\u0131 y\u0131rtard\u0131. Her zaman \u015f\u00f6yle dua ederdi:-Allah'\u0131m nefsimin \u015ferrinden sana s\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131r\u0131m.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Peki sen nefsinin \u015ferrinden ka\u00e7 kere Allah'a(c.c.) s\u0131\u011f\u0131nd\u0131n. Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n hay\u0131rlar\u0131, iyilikeri, insanlara anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131n ilmi \u00e7ok g\u00fczel yap\u0131yorsun desinler diye ve seni \u00f6vs\u00fcnler diye mi yapt\u0131n? Bu \u00f6zellikle bir M\u00fcmin i\u00e7in okadar tehlikeli bir durum ki e\u011fer ki\u015fide varsa bir \u00e7ok \u015feyin do\u011fmas\u0131na sebebiyet verecektir.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u0130man Gazali \u0130hya-u ulum'id-din adl\u0131 kitab\u0131nda \u015f\u00f6yle bir konuya de\u011finmi\u015ftir. \u00d6vg\u00fc ki\u015fiye iki y\u00f6nden zarar verir:\u00a0-\u00d6vg\u00fc onda kibir ve gurur meydana getirir, kibir ve gurur ise helak edicilerdir.-\u00d6v\u00fcleni hay\u0131rla \u00f6vd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc zaman, bu \u00f6vmeden sevinir, hay\u0131r y\u00f6n\u00fcnden gev\u015fer ve nefsinden raz\u0131 olur. Oysa nefsinden raz\u0131 olan bir kimsenin \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 azal\u0131r, zira nesfini kusurlu g\u00f6ren bir kimse ciddiyetle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya koyulur. Ama diller, adam\u0131n lehinde \u00f6vg\u00fcler d\u00fczd\u00fckleri zaman adam da hedefe vard\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 zanneder,dolas\u0131yla gev\u015fer...\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Gayemiz gev\u015femeden tembellik g\u00f6stermeden m\u00fccadele etmektir. Yapt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6rmeyelim, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131 da k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck g\u00f6rmeyelim. Kendi ilmimizle, konu\u015fmam\u0131zla, yazd\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131zla \u00f6v\u00fcnmek asl\u0131nda fark\u0131nda olmadan bizi oldum havas\u0131na sokup gev\u015fekli\u011fe d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcr. 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