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Muhammed Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem'e Aline ve Ashab\u0131na bug\u00fcn ya\u015famakta olanlara selam olsun.\u201cAhlak\u201d Hz. Muhammed Sallallahu Aleyhi ve Sellem'e Peygamberlik verilmesi ve Kur'an'\u0131n indirilmesi ile kullan\u0131lmaya ba\u015flayan \u0130slami bir kavramd\u0131r.\u201cAhlak\u201d \u0130nsandaki iyi ve k\u00f6t\u00fc huylar, fazilet ve reziletleri ifade eder.\u201cAhlak\u201d iyi ve k\u00f6t\u00fc olmak \u00fczere iki k\u0131sma ayr\u0131l\u0131r.a. \u0130yi ahlak; Kur'an'a, S\u00fcnnete ve akl\u0131 selime uygun olan s\u00f6z fiil ve davran\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. Abdullah ibn-i m\u00fcbarek iyi ahlakl\u0131 \u015f\u00f6yle tan\u0131mlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r;\u201c g\u00fcler y\u00fczl\u00fc olmak, \u0130nsanlara \u00e7ok iyilikte bulunmak, onlara eza ve s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 veren \u015feyleri yok etmektir.\u201db. K\u00f6t\u00fc ahlak; Kur'an'a, S\u00fcnnete ve akl\u0131 selime uygun olmayan s\u00f6z fiil ve davran\u0131\u015flard\u0131r.\u0130nsan iki \u015feyden meydana gelmi\u015ftir. Ruh ve nefis. Ahlak a\u011fac\u0131n\u0131 mahiyeti onda yeti\u015fen meyveler ile bilinir. Her nefis kendini hesaba \u00e7ekmeli ben de ne yeti\u015fiyor. K\u00f6t\u00fc-ahlak-kabal\u0131k-h\u0131rs ama d\u00fc\u015fmanl\u0131k-riya yoksa g\u00fczel-\u0130ffet-haya-infak-tebess\u00fcm ve lisan\u0131n afetleri ona g\u00f6re ki\u015fi kendini bir tartmal\u0131. Bu ayki yaz\u0131m\u0131zda k\u00f6t\u00fc ahlak olan lisan\u0131n afetlerinden bahsedece\u011fim in\u015faAllah.\u0130mam Gazali rahmetullahi aleyh der ki;\u201cDil Allah'\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fck nimetlerinden ve harikulade sanat\u0131n\u0131n inceliklerindendir. Kendisi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckt\u00fcr fakat ibadeti ve isyan\u0131 pek b\u00fcy\u00fckt\u00fcr. Zira k\u00fcf\u00fcr ve iman ancak dilin \u015fehadeti ile a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kar. Oysa k\u00fcf\u00fcr ve iman, itaat ve isyan\u0131n hedef ve gayeleridir. \u0130nsan dili sayesinde d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 da ahiretini de \u015fekillendirir. \u015e\u00f6yleki dili ile g\u00fczel \u015feyleri zikrederek mertebesini y\u00fckseltti\u011fi gibi k\u00f6t\u00fc s\u00f6ylentileri de kendisini cehenneme s\u00fcr\u00fckler. Allah azze ve celle \u015f\u00f6yle buyuruyor; \u201c\u0130nsan hi\u00e7 s\u00f6z s\u00f6ylemez ki yan\u0131nda g\u00f6zeten yazmaya haz\u0131r bir melek bulunmas\u0131n\u201d (Kaf 18)Ayet-i kerimede zikredildi\u011fi \u00fczere a\u011fz\u0131m\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131kan her s\u00f6z kay\u0131t alt\u0131na al\u0131n\u0131yor. O halde insan her daim kendini Allah'\u0131n huzurunda hissederek kendini k\u00fcfre g\u00f6t\u00fcrecek s\u00f6zlerden ka\u00e7\u0131nmas\u0131 gerekir. Dilin afetleri \u00e7oktur.1. G\u0131ybet; karde\u015finin arkas\u0131ndan o duydu\u011fu zaman ho\u015funa gitmeyecek \u015feyler s\u00f6ylemek.2. Nemime; iki ki\u015fi aras\u0131nda laf g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcp getirmek.3. Hemz; fesat \u00e7\u0131karacak s\u00f6z s\u00f6ylemek.4. Lemz; ka\u015f\u0131yla i\u015faret edip birbirinin aleyhinde f\u0131s\u0131ldamak.5. Kizb; yalan s\u00f6ylemek.6. \u0130stihza; insanlar\u0131 alaya almak e\u011flence konusu yapmak. Dinin baz\u0131 h\u00fck\u00fcmlerini yalanlamak. Baz\u0131 kimseleri (medihde) ileri gitmek. G\u00fczel konu\u015fmak suretiyle arkada\u015flar\u0131na sitem ederek onlar\u0131n arkas\u0131nda kendi kendini g\u00f6sterme arzusunda bulunmak dilin afetlerindendir.Lisan\u0131n afetlerinden biriside insanlarla alay etmek ve onlara k\u00f6t\u00fc lakap takmakt\u0131r. Alay etmek, eziyet verecek olursa da haram olur.Allah azze ve celle \u015f\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015ftur;\u201cEy iman edenler bir topluluk di\u011fer bir toplulukla alay etmesin. Belki de onlar kendilerinden daha iyidirler. Kad\u0131nlarda kad\u0131nlar\u0131 alaya almas\u0131nlar. Belki onlar kendilerinden daha iyidirler. Kendi kendinizi ay\u0131plamay\u0131n birbirinizi k\u00f6t\u00fc lakaplarla \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmay\u0131n imandan sonra fas\u0131kl\u0131k ne k\u00f6t\u00fc bir isimdir. Kim de tevbe etmezse i\u015fte bu kimseler zalimlerdir.\u201d (Hucurat 11)Rivayete g\u00f6re Ebu Zerr rad\u0131yallahu anh, Res\u00fblullah Sallallahu Aleyhi Sellem\u2019in huzurunda iken bir adam onunla tart\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015f. Ebu Zerr rad\u0131yallahu anh ona; \u201cey kara kad\u0131n\u0131n o\u011flu\u201d demi\u015f. Resulullah Sallallahu Aleyhi Vesellem bunun \u00fczerine \u015e\u00f6yle buyurmu\u015ftur; \u201csenin burada g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn k\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 tenli, siyah tenliler aras\u0131nda herhangi bir kimseden daha faziletli sen de\u011filsin\u201dSahabeden \u0130bni Abbas Rad\u0131yallahu Anh dedi ki; \u201cLakaplarla \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmak ki\u015finin birtak\u0131m k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fckler i\u015fledikten sonra ge\u00e7mi\u015fi ile ay\u0131planmas\u0131d\u0131r. Allah azze ve celle bir kimsenin ge\u00e7mi\u015fi ile ay\u0131planmas\u0131n\u0131 yasaklam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r.\u201d Bu hususta benimsenecek ana prensip \u015fudur; bir kimseye o isimle hitap edildi\u011fi takdirde e\u011fer ondan ho\u015flanm\u0131yorsa bu eziyet verdi\u011finden \u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fc caiz de\u011fildir. K\u00f6t\u00fc isim tak\u0131p lakaplarla \u00e7a\u011f\u0131rmak k\u00f6t\u00fc ahlaktand\u0131r.Bat\u0131la dalmak da lisan\u0131n afetlerindendir. B\u00e2t\u0131la dalmak g\u00fcnahlar hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fmak demektir.Bo\u015f konu\u015fmalar da lisan\u0131n afetlerindendir. Bir ki\u015finin en g\u00fczel hali g\u0131ybet ve ko\u011fuculuk, yalan, cedel, a\u011f\u0131z, kavgas\u0131 ve benzeri afetlerden korunma ancak m\u00fcbah olup ne sana ne de bir M\u00fcsl\u00fcmana zarar\u0131 olmayan \u015feyler hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fmand\u0131r. Konu\u015ftu\u011fun takdirde zaman\u0131n\u0131 zayi etti\u011fin gibi o konu\u015fmada \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n dilinden de sorumlusun. E\u011fer Allah'\u0131 anar ve tesbih edersen bu senin i\u00e7in daha hay\u0131rl\u0131d\u0131r.Fuzuli konu\u015fmak s\u00f6z\u00fc uzatmak da lisan\u0131n afetlerindendir. Fuzuli konu\u015fmak k\u00f6t\u00fcd\u00fcr. Bu t\u00fcr konu\u015fma malayaniye dalmaya, ihtiya\u00e7tan fazlaya ka\u00e7ar.Ata bin Ebi Rebah der ki;\u201cSizden \u00f6ncekiler Fuzuli konu\u015fmay\u0131 \u00e7irkin g\u00f6r\u00fcrlerdi. Allah'\u0131n Kitab\u0131, Hz. Peygamberin sallallahu aleyhi ve sellem s\u00fcnneti emri bil maruf ve nehyi anil m\u00fcnker veya zaruri ihtiya\u00e7 hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fmak hari\u00e7 bunun d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda kalanlar\u0131 fuzuli konu\u015fmadan sayarlard\u0131. Bug\u00fcn diller yarar\u0131na de\u011fil s\u00fcrekli zarar\u0131na \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmakta.\u201dAshab\u2019dan biri \u015f\u00f6yle demi\u015ftir;\u201cBiri benimle konu\u015fmak istedi\u011finde onunla konu\u015fmak, so\u011fuk suyun susam\u0131\u015f bir kimsenin ho\u015funa gitmesinden daha \u00e7ok ho\u015fuma gider. Fakat fuzuli konu\u015fma olur d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesiyle konu\u015fmay\u0131 terk ediyorum.\u201dDil yaras\u0131 en derinidir derler. Do\u011fru s\u00f6zd\u00fcr kendini tutmay\u0131p s\u00f6ylenen baz\u0131 s\u00f6zler \u00f6yle derin yaralar yapar ki zamanla ge\u00e7se de a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131 yerde izi kal\u0131r. K\u0131l\u0131\u00e7lar\u0131n a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131 yaralar iyile\u015fir ama dilin a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131 yara iyile\u015fmez denilmi\u015ftir. Bo\u015fu bo\u015funa yap\u0131lan konu\u015fmalar kalbi kat\u0131la\u015ft\u0131r\u0131r. Ruhun dengesini bozar.B\u00fcy\u00fcklerimiz g\u00f6n\u00fcllerin anahtar\u0131 yumu\u015fak huy ve yumu\u015fak kelimelerdir demi\u015flerdir. Ger\u00e7ekten dilin tatl\u0131 dil olmak \u015fart\u0131yla a\u00e7amayaca\u011f\u0131 kap\u0131 yoktur. \u0130slam adab\u0131n\u0131n gere\u011fi olarak tatl\u0131 ve g\u00fcler y\u00fczl\u00fc olmak zorunday\u0131z. G\u00fczel s\u00f6z sahibini Allah (cc) r\u0131zas\u0131na kavu\u015fturan nimet i\u00e7inde bir \u00e7ok fazilet ve iyilikten bir haslettir.Unutmayal\u0131m ki; \u201c\u0130zzet ve \u015feref isteyen kimse bilsin ki izzet b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcyle Allah\u2019\u0131nd\u0131r. O\u2019na anacak g\u00fczel s\u00f6zler y\u00fckselir. Onlarda iyi ameller y\u00fckseltir.\u201d (Fat\u0131r 10)Tatl\u0131 dilli olmak Allah\u2019\u0131n r\u0131zas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6zeterek konu\u015fmak Rabbimiz kat\u0131na y\u00fckselecek ve zaman\u0131 gelince bize m\u00fckafat olarak geri d\u00f6necektir. \u0130n\u015faAllah.Selam ile duayla"}